so how do you steal a girl who's already unhappy with her bf? The girl digs me but she's afraid of the sadness that'll come to her if she breaks up with her bf. So what can i say to convince her to break up? I already tell her that she deserves to be happy
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
how to steal a girl who's already unhappy
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"she deserves to be happy" sounds so freaking AFC to me, why? Because I used that same line over and over for 3 years, on ONE GIRL. I know AFC inside and out and to be honest, thats the closest thing to having one-itis I have heard of all day.detox said:
How do you steal her? You do it. Tell her you think shes hot, let her know she looks "sexy" USE THE WORD "sexy". Give her an SOI damnit, let her know what YOU WANT. What YOU want is her, correct? So let her know. Chances are you can mess with that and she'll stay with her boyfriend. Women love adventure; the taboo behind cheating is definitely a turn on. Use that and you won't have to spend $$$ on a single date to get some ass.
Personally I'd never tell a girl she is sexy...TheManlyMan said:
I supose if she is attracted to you already then it would work.
Showing low interest always work for me.
Cheating is a turn on, nice... Makes me think...
Reminds me of one of the stories off of...
http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/board/viewtopic.php?t=5926
Something like "my husband was passed out drunk 3 meters from me while his best friend ****ed me, I had the best orgasum ever!"
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I remember in high school I ****ed a married woman.
I didn't understand how she could even get turned on.
Now that I think about it, she was cheating, ha!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Chloroform.detox said:
Use it, dump her in your truck and drive out of town to an abandoned house on the outskirts.
Everyone knows that chicks have kidnapping fantasies and this is totally your chance by going psycho AFC on her.
Girls break up with their boyfriends cuz another man gives them something they need. Be that man.
Exactly!
She digs you but is afraid of breaking up with the boyfriend? I'm allergic to bull$hit my friend and thats what this girl is full of. Chances are she's using you as an emotional tampon and if you try to game her the only responses coming out of her mouth would be along the lines of "I don't see you in that way", "Lets just be friends" etc. Learn how to read them. It's hard at the very beginning but with expirience they become much too predictable.
Exactly!
She digs you but is afraid of breaking up with the boyfriend? I'm allergic to bull$hit my friend and thats what this girl is full of. Chances are she's using you as an emotional tampon and if you try to game her the only responses coming out of her mouth would be along the lines of "I don't see you in that way", "Lets just be friends" etc. Learn how to read them. It's hard at the very beginning but with expirience they become much too predictable.