so how do you steal a girl who's already unhappy with her bf? The girl digs me but she's afraid of the sadness that'll come to her if she breaks up with her bf. So what can i say to convince her to break up? I already tell her that she deserves to be happy
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
how to steal a girl who's already unhappy
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"she deserves to be happy" sounds so freaking AFC to me, why? Because I used that same line over and over for 3 years, on ONE GIRL. I know AFC inside and out and to be honest, thats the closest thing to having one-itis I have heard of all day.detox said:
How do you steal her? You do it. Tell her you think shes hot, let her know she looks "sexy" USE THE WORD "sexy". Give her an SOI damnit, let her know what YOU WANT. What YOU want is her, correct? So let her know. Chances are you can mess with that and she'll stay with her boyfriend. Women love adventure; the taboo behind cheating is definitely a turn on. Use that and you won't have to spend $$$ on a single date to get some ass.
Personally I'd never tell a girl she is sexy...TheManlyMan said:
I supose if she is attracted to you already then it would work.
Showing low interest always work for me.
Cheating is a turn on, nice... Makes me think...
Reminds me of one of the stories off of...
http://www.femalefirst.co.uk/board/viewtopic.php?t=5926
Something like "my husband was passed out drunk 3 meters from me while his best friend ****ed me, I had the best orgasum ever!"
...
I remember in high school I ****ed a married woman.
I didn't understand how she could even get turned on.
Now that I think about it, she was cheating, ha!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Chloroform.detox said:
Use it, dump her in your truck and drive out of town to an abandoned house on the outskirts.
Everyone knows that chicks have kidnapping fantasies and this is totally your chance by going psycho AFC on her.
Girls break up with their boyfriends cuz another man gives them something they need. Be that man.
Exactly!
She digs you but is afraid of breaking up with the boyfriend? I'm allergic to bull$hit my friend and thats what this girl is full of. Chances are she's using you as an emotional tampon and if you try to game her the only responses coming out of her mouth would be along the lines of "I don't see you in that way", "Lets just be friends" etc. Learn how to read them. It's hard at the very beginning but with expirience they become much too predictable.
Exactly!
She digs you but is afraid of breaking up with the boyfriend? I'm allergic to bull$hit my friend and thats what this girl is full of. Chances are she's using you as an emotional tampon and if you try to game her the only responses coming out of her mouth would be along the lines of "I don't see you in that way", "Lets just be friends" etc. Learn how to read them. It's hard at the very beginning but with expirience they become much too predictable.