"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how to stay emotionally detatched with a F@ck Buddy

soulforge

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so guys, what are the does & dont's when you are seeing a girl, but you only see her as a fucck buddy? not long term material

what are the does and dont's in this type of situation?

how do you deal with her trying to get affection out of you (ie) kissing & cuddeling etc?

how do you deal with soppy text messages from her??


what if she wants to spend the next day with you, or wants to go out for meals or days out etc???

how do you keep things strictly on the fucck buddy level, when she is hoping for more from you!!!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Epimanes

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Be honest. Let her know what your intentions are or you will just create another feminist b!tch.

*shrugs*


Epi
 

Starfvcks 64

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soulforge said:
so guys, what are the does & dont's when you are seeing a girl, but you only see her as a fucck buddy? not long term material
The most important part, and this needs to happen: PURSUE OTHER GIRLS.
She will be pursuing other guys, and you probably won't know about it, and she could leave you at any moment, for any reason. A mistake guys make is telling themselves they don't have feelings, but end up realizing they do when the girl leaves him.

You may want to reconsider what you have with her, because I don't do FWB relationships anymore. I just date "casually." There really isn't much difference between that and an FWB type of situation, except that she isn't a friend, she is a girl i'm seeing occasionally. When a girl starts getting too clingy, I just keep my distance and if she keeps being annoying, I'll consider dropping her.

How to deal with soppy messages? Ignore or switch topics.
 

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Slow her down by saying that you're not looking for anything serious and then pursue other options
 

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Stop banging her. Anything else will only lead to problems after a few months. Period.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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