"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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so guys, what are the does & dont's when you are seeing a girl, but you only see her as a fucck buddy? not long term material

what are the does and dont's in this type of situation?

how do you deal with her trying to get affection out of you (ie) kissing & cuddeling etc?

how do you deal with soppy text messages from her??


what if she wants to spend the next day with you, or wants to go out for meals or days out etc???

how do you keep things strictly on the fucck buddy level, when she is hoping for more from you!!!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Be honest. Let her know what your intentions are or you will just create another feminist b!tch.

*shrugs*


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soulforge said:
so guys, what are the does & dont's when you are seeing a girl, but you only see her as a fucck buddy? not long term material
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The most important part, and this needs to happen: PURSUE OTHER GIRLS.
She will be pursuing other guys, and you probably won't know about it, and she could leave you at any moment, for any reason. A mistake guys make is telling themselves they don't have feelings, but end up realizing they do when the girl leaves him.

You may want to reconsider what you have with her, because I don't do FWB relationships anymore. I just date "casually." There really isn't much difference between that and an FWB type of situation, except that she isn't a friend, she is a girl i'm seeing occasionally. When a girl starts getting too clingy, I just keep my distance and if she keeps being annoying, I'll consider dropping her.

How to deal with soppy messages? Ignore or switch topics.
 
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Slow her down by saying that you're not looking for anything serious and then pursue other options
 
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Stop banging her. Anything else will only lead to problems after a few months. Period.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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