i know this girl in one of my classes, we never actually had a conversation, accept a 3 minut one but we do know each other. i would likt to have a good conversation to get a connection with her. what can i do to break that ice???
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
how to start talk to a girl i know
- Thread starter eax5
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
TDOT
Don Juan
OK, I don't know why I'm letting you in on this secret weapon of mine
This is what you do
Approach her, softy squeeze her upper arm then say:
You: Something.
Her: What?
You: I just had to come over and say "SOME - THING " to you because I would hate myself forever if I didn't take this grand opportunity to speak.
This is what you do
Approach her, softy squeeze her upper arm then say:
You: Something.
Her: What?
You: I just had to come over and say "SOME - THING " to you because I would hate myself forever if I didn't take this grand opportunity to speak.
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Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
eax5...here's something to remember. People like to go with the flow. It is subconcious and people don't even notice when it happens. People can also go against it if they are extremly optimistic or pessimistic. The point I am gettin to is that if you go to a girl and act like the two of you are best friends, after a couple minutes, she will start to believe it (or at least that you are friends) Have you ever seen someone who you thought you knew, smiled and waved at them and watched them put on that awkward face, but stay to see if they remembered you? It is easy.
It's even easier for you because you already talked to her once. That is primarily the hardest part. Just think of something you talked about last time and act like you talk every day. You'll do fine
It's even easier for you because you already talked to her once. That is primarily the hardest part. Just think of something you talked about last time and act like you talk every day. You'll do fine
get your conversation tips from Rudolph the Movie. He11 yeah.
when she is talking to one of your friends, add something there. Remember, you are talking to the friend and not her. Soon she will talk. Then you will talk and she will talk again and on and on and on...
when she is talking to one of your friends, add something there. Remember, you are talking to the friend and not her. Soon she will talk. Then you will talk and she will talk again and on and on and on...
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
TDOT
Don Juan
Another opener:
You: Trick
Her: What did you just call me?!
You: I didn't call you anything, do you want to see a cardtrick?
#1:
Her: sure.
You: Well I can't show you right now because I don't have
any cards, give me your number and when I get some I'll contact you because I really want to show you this trick
#2:
Her: No.
You: You know that the word `no' spelled backwards is `on', are you trying to tell me that I turn you on?
Her: No.
You: We have confirmation, so my suspicions were correct.
#3:
[she actually has some cards and hands them to you]
[you take the deck and say]
You: Let me check to see if they are all here
[thumb through the deck and pull out the queen of diamonds without her knowing]
[take it and say]
You: I'm going to amazingly make your picture appear on this card
[shake it two or three times then show her the face displaying the queen of diamonds]
(she'll melt)
You: Trick
Her: What did you just call me?!
You: I didn't call you anything, do you want to see a cardtrick?
#1:
Her: sure.
You: Well I can't show you right now because I don't have
any cards, give me your number and when I get some I'll contact you because I really want to show you this trick
#2:
Her: No.
You: You know that the word `no' spelled backwards is `on', are you trying to tell me that I turn you on?
Her: No.
You: We have confirmation, so my suspicions were correct.
#3:
[she actually has some cards and hands them to you]
[you take the deck and say]
You: Let me check to see if they are all here
[thumb through the deck and pull out the queen of diamonds without her knowing]
[take it and say]
You: I'm going to amazingly make your picture appear on this card
[shake it two or three times then show her the face displaying the queen of diamonds]
(she'll melt)
wavejams007
Master Don Juan
dude, not all that hard to break the ice. You say that the 2 of you have classes together? Then the answer is pretty darn simple. Just go over to her and as k for the anwer to some semi-long answer, or help with it. Then use your sense of humor and a little imagination( I seriously hope U have both) and before U know it, you both will have a good conversation.
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The whole Cardtrick thing is to tacky. I've shown guys and girls card tricks at school but I wouldn't do it from "hey one day I want to show you this trick because its so cool"
Anyways, you have class with her right? I'll name a few things...
1. Ask her if she did her homework,
2. Ask her what she thinks abou the teacher.
3. If the class is before lunch ask her what shes having? If its after that class ask her what she had
4. Go over something similar to what you talked with her before about.
5. "That's a cute outfit" I Havn't tried that one yet. (im always making fun of girls outfits) Girls are so fun to tease hehehe. I wouldn't suggest any teasing until after you talked to her atleast 3 times or so.
Don't worry so much about what your going to talk about with her but what your talking about with yourself (self confidence)
Anyways, you have class with her right? I'll name a few things...
1. Ask her if she did her homework,
2. Ask her what she thinks abou the teacher.
3. If the class is before lunch ask her what shes having? If its after that class ask her what she had
4. Go over something similar to what you talked with her before about.
5. "That's a cute outfit" I Havn't tried that one yet. (im always making fun of girls outfits) Girls are so fun to tease hehehe. I wouldn't suggest any teasing until after you talked to her atleast 3 times or so.
Don't worry so much about what your going to talk about with her but what your talking about with yourself (self confidence)