"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to start learning about how to meet women from scratch

Nushidorei

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Hey guys,

After going through the majority of this site's articles a few years ago, I realised I had no idea what to do when it came to trying to meet women, as every author has different opinions and naturally, some contradict each other. As such, I just tried to do my own thing and ended up falling in love with someone who abused me, not much of a success there.

It's been a year and a half now and I'm ready to move on, but I still have no idea how to meet women. Can anyone advice some starting material to go through and try?

Thank you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ALPHAROMEO

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approach 3 WOMEN A DAY LITERALLY PUSH YOURSELF TO APPROACH 3

SAY ANYTHING ASK FOR THE TIME DIRECTIONS

NO TALKIN NO BEER DRINKING NO TV TONITE BE THAT HARD ON YOURSELF DON T GIVE A **** ABOUT WHAT SHE SAYS TO YOU JUST DO IT

THAT S THE FIRST STAGE

I WAS very much like you when i first started then one day i said to myself " i approach three chick even if i have to die
 

ilikecharlene

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First step is confidence. Second step is to use the confidence to approach.
 

bigneil

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Once you feel healthy you will naturally attract women and be confident, so work on that first. Also, find something you like to do like playing pool, in the vicinity of women, and be good at it. That's normally how I meet new women in town is to hang out at a cool bar with a pool table.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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It doesn't matter what you say. It matters how you say it. Confidence is everything. Keep practicing until you get comfortable with it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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