"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to start learning about how to meet women from scratch

Nushidorei

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Hey guys,

After going through the majority of this site's articles a few years ago, I realised I had no idea what to do when it came to trying to meet women, as every author has different opinions and naturally, some contradict each other. As such, I just tried to do my own thing and ended up falling in love with someone who abused me, not much of a success there.

It's been a year and a half now and I'm ready to move on, but I still have no idea how to meet women. Can anyone advice some starting material to go through and try?

Thank you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ALPHAROMEO

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approach 3 WOMEN A DAY LITERALLY PUSH YOURSELF TO APPROACH 3

SAY ANYTHING ASK FOR THE TIME DIRECTIONS

NO TALKIN NO BEER DRINKING NO TV TONITE BE THAT HARD ON YOURSELF DON T GIVE A **** ABOUT WHAT SHE SAYS TO YOU JUST DO IT

THAT S THE FIRST STAGE

I WAS very much like you when i first started then one day i said to myself " i approach three chick even if i have to die
 

ilikecharlene

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First step is confidence. Second step is to use the confidence to approach.
 

bigneil

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Once you feel healthy you will naturally attract women and be confident, so work on that first. Also, find something you like to do like playing pool, in the vicinity of women, and be good at it. That's normally how I meet new women in town is to hang out at a cool bar with a pool table.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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It doesn't matter what you say. It matters how you say it. Confidence is everything. Keep practicing until you get comfortable with it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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