"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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How to spot a professional date/teaser

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One of the girls I'm interested in, shows all the signs of interest.

Kinoing, laughing at even my lamest of remarks/jokes. She loves the "high fives", plus, slapping me on the back.

Takes small interest in my life, asking questions.

I'm guessing the only true way to find out, is to ask for the home #, and go for a date, correct?

I just want to know some definite signs of total girl teasers/flirters, or if this one is just lookin for a friendship.

B/f has not come up, I don't know if she has one, and I won't be asking. If she has a b/f though, and she's doing this type of actions, I doubt I'd want her as a g/f anyway.

Any signs would be welcome.

Thanks!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just isolate and kiss. It's gonna be really clear after some time. :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by The TallOne
Well, OTHER than isolating and kissing, any signs? :p
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Oh yeah...

You can carefully observe her for a month or two
She may flirt with other guys
She may have "too many guy friends"
She may date and tease professionally all day - 9 to 5 :rolleyes:

Even if she IS a "professional dater" you won't find out will after you've dated her.

Dude - you're afraid of rejection. Forget it and take the plunge.
 
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cant help but laughing at this kinda questions.
Why you care if she's a professional dater anyway? That's not the main issue. What you should ask yourself is whether or not you're interested in this girl. If you are, then by all means go for her , no matter she is proffessional dater or not.
Next time guys, ask for a date then post the results here for advice.
 
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worrying creates decrease in self confidence and self confidence is more important than your appearance.
 
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Originally posted by xomel
worrying creates decrease in self confidence and self confidence is more important than your appearance.
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exactly...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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