"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ok my situation is... I moved to this new town over summer...I don't really know anyone except a few guys. We just cruise the mall and ****. Theres this girl I see there alot who everyone thinks is bomb. But she's single, and supposedly she'd be "hard to get" into bed that is. And she is gorgeous.

Now as for me, I am 17 and 5'5" and I look really young for my age usually I surprise people when I tell them I am 17 and it is usually uncomfortable. I have learned to tolerate it over the years.

I am kinda shy and I have read alot on these forums here about sayin these wonderous one liners to get women to dig you. I need some counsel on how I should go about letting this girl know I'm interested in her without her thinkin I'm a creep or I just wanna bone. I would like to get a date or phone number. Some of the suggested methods on the forums are debateable.

Of course there is the walk up and get her name, 3s, ask her if she single but that just doesnt seem too original, it seems fake. I want her to know who I am before I go that far. If someone could give me a suggestion on the best way to introduce myself, with or without asking her out or for her phone number, that would help alot.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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^UP^--------------------------------read the bible:confused:
 
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He just said that he read the DJ Bible...

Look, just go up to her and make some conversation. Small talk and banter is the best way to approach a girl. If she's cool it'll be easy riding from there...If you're feeling her then just get her phone number. Simple! :)

Good luck!
 
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I guess it's the first impression thing that gots me psyched. Like I don't think it'd be too hard to approach her, but I don't want wanna **** up you know. Any tips ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Craig Reeves
He just said that he read the DJ Bible...
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So the entire section about conversation had no helpful information what-so-ever, huh? :rolleyes:
 
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exactly

walk up, start a convo. say like hey, i see you around here alot, and figured i should find out who you are. simple

MOST IMPORTANT THING!!!
BUST HER BALLS!!!

make fun of her, play down her looks, but KEEP IT FUNNY!!! if she makes any advances (cause you got skill, ace ;) ) then don't submit to them. just playfully evade them. she's go nuts. this usually works with all girls, but especially if their really hot (and know it)

good luck bud
 
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That was helpful deb thx. I will reread some of the DJ bible.
 
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ya most of this stuff can be found in the bible somewhere, so get reading!
 
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Originally posted by Mr. Debonaire
ya most of this stuff can be found in the bible somewhere, so get reading!
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i agree
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ah shiznit (bizump ROFL!:D), whatever you do, don't come off as a fake! Saw a guy at taco time flirting with the cashier person, and it came off so phony as if he was playing by the book, no improv. Be at ease, relax, dont let her looks get you worried. She sh1ts just like I do - MASSIVE melange of dark chunky chili and gravy! :D
 
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