Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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how to solve the player problem

theap

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a player is a guy who has ever had sex with a girl within six weeks.

if a player is known here's some suggestions.
punch the player
call the player names
if player is seducing a girl stop it
inform girls players are no good
let your friends know not to become a player
throw food at a player
stuff player into the nearest garbage can
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sofomore

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Please do use a favor and stuff yourself into a garbage can.
 

Maximus Rex

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Dude...

theap said:
a player is a guy who has ever had sex with a girl within six weeks.

if a player is known here's some suggestions.
punch the player
call the player names
if player is seducing a girl stop it
inform girls players are no good
let your friends know not to become a player
throw food at a player
stuff player into the nearest garbage can
If being a "player," is bad, then doing any or all of those things would make you a "player hater, which is a hella lot worse. Also, stop with the male shaming tactics.
 

Chamber36

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Yeah man.

Don't hate the player - hate the game.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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