"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how to solve the player problem

theap

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a player is a guy who has ever had sex with a girl within six weeks.

if a player is known here's some suggestions.
punch the player
call the player names
if player is seducing a girl stop it
inform girls players are no good
let your friends know not to become a player
throw food at a player
stuff player into the nearest garbage can
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sofomore

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Please do use a favor and stuff yourself into a garbage can.
 

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Dude...

theap said:
a player is a guy who has ever had sex with a girl within six weeks.

if a player is known here's some suggestions.
punch the player
call the player names
if player is seducing a girl stop it
inform girls players are no good
let your friends know not to become a player
throw food at a player
stuff player into the nearest garbage can
If being a "player," is bad, then doing any or all of those things would make you a "player hater, which is a hella lot worse. Also, stop with the male shaming tactics.
 

Chamber36

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Yeah man.

Don't hate the player - hate the game.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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