“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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How to snap out of low-energy, in-my-head thinking?

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wanderlust420

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My results are up and down. Sometimes this stuff comes okay to me, and other times it's as if I have no idea of what I'm doing.

This past weekend I'm at a bar with some friends, enjoying myself, and a good looking girl hits eye contact with me. We hold for a couple of seconds, I think we break at the same time or I break first (doh!) - I know she is looking back a couple times throughout the night, and yet I can't find my balls to walk the length of the room to introduce myself.

Help me guys, I'd like to hear from someone who has found themselves in a situation like this and learned how to get over the fear/anxiety/whatever was holding them back.

This seems easier if I'm all jumpy and jovial, but so much harder if I'm relaxed and just lounging with friends...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Guess you do not want to get laid bad enough.. You can lead a horse to water but can not make it drink.. In times like this goto the rest room look yourself in the mirror and pump yourself up. Say "I can do this, she wants me" etc....
 
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Yes, Great reference post realsmoothie

wanderlust420, you should always try to live by the 3 second rule
which simply states that you should approach a girl within 3 seconds.

The 3 second rule is setup to make you approach without worrying about the outcome.

You are worried about rejection.

Check out my DJ Bible post On rejection
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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