How to snap out of low-energy, in-my-head thinking?

[wanderlust420]

My results are up and down. Sometimes this stuff comes okay to me, and other times it's as if I have no idea of what I'm doing.

This past weekend I'm at a bar with some friends, enjoying myself, and a good looking girl hits eye contact with me. We hold for a couple of seconds, I think we break at the same time or I break first (doh!) - I know she is looking back a couple times throughout the night, and yet I can't find my balls to walk the length of the room to introduce myself.

Help me guys, I'd like to hear from someone who has found themselves in a situation like this and learned how to get over the fear/anxiety/whatever was holding them back.

This seems easier if I'm all jumpy and jovial, but so much harder if I'm relaxed and just lounging with friends...

 

[vitor]

Guess you do not want to get laid bad enough.. You can lead a horse to water but can not make it drink.. In times like this goto the rest room look yourself in the mirror and pump yourself up. Say "I can do this, she wants me" etc....

 

[realsmoothie]

I like to read this post every once in a while. It's totally ridiculous, but there are some moments of pure gold in there.


http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=155965&highlight=****

 

[Paradox]

Yes, Great reference post realsmoothie

wanderlust420, you should always try to live by the 3 second rule
which simply states that you should approach a girl within 3 seconds.

The 3 second rule is setup to make you approach without worrying about the outcome.

You are worried about rejection.

Check out my DJ Bible post On rejection

 

[Unbridled_Phoenix]

Stop smoking pot.