"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How to Smell GREAT

Body Spray Deoderant or Cologne and unscented Deoderant?

  • Body Spray Deoderant

    Votes: 1 7.1%
  • Cologne and unscented deoderant

    Votes: 13 92.9%

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donjuan87

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I was wondering how to smell absolutely great. I don't have body odor problems or anything, and take a shower every day, but I want to know how to not make different scents conflict with one another. Should I wear unscented deoderant and use unscented soap and let the cologne do all the work, or can I use scented soap and deoderant? I know that scent is a very important sense, and I don't want to be afraid of standing close to girls or giving them a hug. Any suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Good_ol_boy

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Originally posted by Brak86
...cucumber melon...
The scent shown, by studies, as the number one scent to turn women on!!
 

bullmoose

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1. Trim my armpit hair and pubes. Scissor-length.
2. Unscented Arm & Hammer anti-perspirant
3.) Unscented hair gel
4.) Shave with Ivory soap and lots of hot water
5.) One shot of cologne, straight up into the air over my head, let the mist fall onto my bare skin and into my hair. Clothes go on over it.
6. Floss and Mint Listerine. Often.
 

penkitten

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wait !
no one actually smells the same no matter what kind of deodorant or cologne they are using. you need to try both on two different days and see what smells best on you.
its also nice to have a trademark smell, but when you break up with someone change it just a little.
 

KarmaSutra

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I read in Cosmopolitan that vanilla turns women on and gets the estrogen freely flowing more than any other scent.

Here is my routine:

Gillette Mach 3 turbo razor and gel for shaving my head and my other 2000 + 1 part.

Toms from Maine natural deodorant.
I strongly advise using a good moisturizer after a shower. I use :

http://www.farmersmarketonline.com/ASoapGarden.htm

They use real vanilla bean and shea butter and this alone will drive your woman / women absolutely crazy!

I don't put cologne on until I'm just walking out the door. I apply iit as taught to me from my Dad: 1 good squirt on my left wrist then rub both wrists together in a clockwise swirl for 3 seconds. Next, 1 squirt on the nape of my throat. Lastly, One small squirt on my right wrist which I'll use my fingers to apply just behind both earlobes.

There isn't a more confident feeling than walking out on the town smelling great and wearing great shoes.


Karma
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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