How to set a sexual frame in a covert manner?

[SexManiac]

That is my question

 

[Gamisch]

Maybe you can elaborate on what and where specifically you have problems. This is wat too general.

My take ; you gotta BE SEXY . There is no magic sentence, or look. It's a total package.

There is inner and outer work that needs to be done. Both can be tough, but let's start with the outside.

Outside:
Dress well*have( a) style*hit the gym/be fit* smell good* skincare* nice house* nice car* good underwear ect ect ect. Everything visual, and touchable. It should be on point so these things speak for you if this is the case, you have to do less talking and convincing.

Inside:
This is more tricky. You could have the things written above in place, but still be a male b1tch. Inner work is all about mentality, demeanor attitude ect.

Confidence * humor* experience * game* know when to talk or when to shut up, when to make a move and when to step back* mindstate* abundance mindset*

It's the daily work you do which will come to the surface in the present of a woman.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

While in convo, you can talk about things tangential to sex - kissing, massages, skinny dipping, cuddling/spooning, sexy attire, etc. Introduce them as abstractions (i.e., massages in general, not specifically massaging her or vice versa) if you have to.

 

[SexManiac]

Maybe you can elaborate on what and where specifically you have problems. This is wat too general.

My take ; you gotta BE SEXY . There is no magic sentence, or look. It's a total package.

There is inner and outer work that needs to be done. Both can be tough, but let's start with the outside.

Outside:
Dress well*have( a) style*hit the gym/be fit* smell good* skincare* nice house* nice car* good underwear ect ect ect. Everything visual, and touchable. It should be on point so these things speak for you if this is the case, you have to do less talking and convincing.

Inside:
This is more tricky. You could have the things written above in place, but still be a male b1tch. Inner work is all about mentality, demeanor attitude ect.

Confidence * humor* experience * game* know when to talk or when to shut up, when to make a move and when to step back* mindstate* abundance mindset*

It's the daily work you do which will come to the surface in the present of a woman.

So you mean that I don't have to sexualize? Is that what you want to say?

 

[SexManiac]

While in convo, you can talk about things tangential to sex - kissing, massages, skinny dipping, cuddling/spooning, sexy attire, etc. Introduce them as abstractions (i.e., massages in general, not specifically massaging her or vice versa) if you have to.

What about the cases when I don't have chance to bring those topics out of the blue? Dou have any Routine, Gambit or sequence to do it?