"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to send mixed signals to a girl?

Nikar

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Hi all,

Basically, I'm trying to give a girl I like some mixed signals.
That is, I want to confuse her and let her think "Does he like me or does he treat me like a friend?"
My idea is so that she will come to me instead of me going to her.

This girl is sometimes good and sweet to me and suddendly, she's cold. Then, after tomorrow, for example, she's super sweet again and for all I know, she may turn cold again at evening.

I wanna give do something about this crap she's doing to me and I'm game to try anything. There were a couple of times when I ignored her and didn't made any eye contact with her and she started to talk to me like mad.

So, maybe I should be sweet to her at times, then suddendly ignore her totally, and outta the blue, be sweet again?
Any more powerful tricks?

Thanks guys!
Nikar.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Nikar said:
Hi all,

Basically, I'm trying to give a girl I like some mixed signals.
That is, I want to confuse her and let her think "Does he like me or does he treat me like a friend?"
My idea is so that she will come to me instead of me going to her.

This girl is sometimes good and sweet to me and suddendly, she's cold. Then, after tomorrow, for example, she's super sweet again and for all I know, she may turn cold again at evening.

I wanna give do something about this crap she's doing to me and I'm game to try anything. There were a couple of times when I ignored her and didn't made any eye contact with her and she started to talk to me like mad.

So, maybe I should be sweet to her at times, then suddendly ignore her totally, and outta the blue, be sweet again?
Any more powerful tricks?

Thanks guys!
Nikar.
I stopped making eye contact to a girl I like as well.
She was always blowing hot and cold.
Yesterday I looked at her and she waved back with a smile!
 

Nikar

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Gosh, thanks John! Any more tips for dealing with such girls?
Seriously, I really hate the way they play these kinda games and I wanna give them a taste of their own medicine. Sigh.
 

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Nikar said:
Gosh, thanks John! Any more tips for dealing with such girls?
Seriously, I really hate the way they play these kinda games and I wanna give them a taste of their own medicine. Sigh.
I find with these types of girls, you need a lot of 'patience'.
Sometimes theres underlining problems i.e my man done me wrong,all men are pigs etc...
But it's worth it in the end, from my expercience.
These girls will do almost anything!

Just hang in there buddy and you will find out what I mean.:)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I read somewhere (can't remember where) that when she is blowing hot and cold, you remain constant. And when she's constant, you mix it up. That way whichever way round it is, she'll always be thinking about you.
 

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Ripper said:
I read somewhere (can't remember where) that when she is blowing hot and cold, you remain constant. And when she's constant, you mix it up. That way whichever way round it is, she'll always be thinking about you.
I'm back at work tomorrow after 2 days off.
I wonder which person will turn up:)
 
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