"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to send mixed signals to a girl?

Nikar

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Hi all,

Basically, I'm trying to give a girl I like some mixed signals.
That is, I want to confuse her and let her think "Does he like me or does he treat me like a friend?"
My idea is so that she will come to me instead of me going to her.

This girl is sometimes good and sweet to me and suddendly, she's cold. Then, after tomorrow, for example, she's super sweet again and for all I know, she may turn cold again at evening.

I wanna give do something about this crap she's doing to me and I'm game to try anything. There were a couple of times when I ignored her and didn't made any eye contact with her and she started to talk to me like mad.

So, maybe I should be sweet to her at times, then suddendly ignore her totally, and outta the blue, be sweet again?
Any more powerful tricks?

Thanks guys!
Nikar.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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johncrawford

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Nikar said:
Hi all,

Basically, I'm trying to give a girl I like some mixed signals.
That is, I want to confuse her and let her think "Does he like me or does he treat me like a friend?"
My idea is so that she will come to me instead of me going to her.

This girl is sometimes good and sweet to me and suddendly, she's cold. Then, after tomorrow, for example, she's super sweet again and for all I know, she may turn cold again at evening.

I wanna give do something about this crap she's doing to me and I'm game to try anything. There were a couple of times when I ignored her and didn't made any eye contact with her and she started to talk to me like mad.

So, maybe I should be sweet to her at times, then suddendly ignore her totally, and outta the blue, be sweet again?
Any more powerful tricks?

Thanks guys!
Nikar.
I stopped making eye contact to a girl I like as well.
She was always blowing hot and cold.
Yesterday I looked at her and she waved back with a smile!
 

Nikar

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Gosh, thanks John! Any more tips for dealing with such girls?
Seriously, I really hate the way they play these kinda games and I wanna give them a taste of their own medicine. Sigh.
 

johncrawford

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Nikar said:
Gosh, thanks John! Any more tips for dealing with such girls?
Seriously, I really hate the way they play these kinda games and I wanna give them a taste of their own medicine. Sigh.
I find with these types of girls, you need a lot of 'patience'.
Sometimes theres underlining problems i.e my man done me wrong,all men are pigs etc...
But it's worth it in the end, from my expercience.
These girls will do almost anything!

Just hang in there buddy and you will find out what I mean.:)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I read somewhere (can't remember where) that when she is blowing hot and cold, you remain constant. And when she's constant, you mix it up. That way whichever way round it is, she'll always be thinking about you.
 

johncrawford

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Ripper said:
I read somewhere (can't remember where) that when she is blowing hot and cold, you remain constant. And when she's constant, you mix it up. That way whichever way round it is, she'll always be thinking about you.
I'm back at work tomorrow after 2 days off.
I wonder which person will turn up:)
 
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