Dante420
Master Don Juan
JLay87 said:
At this point that could be one of the worst things he could do for now,
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How to Seduce/Fclose My girlfriend
- Thread starter mattarama
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At this point that could be one of the worst things he could do for now,
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Skydiver43127
Senior Don Juan
Agreed. At this point she's probably feeling insecure thinking something in the line of "What's wrong with me? Doesn't he find me attractive? Am I a sl*t for wanting sex before he wants it?". That's why she hasn't lost interest -she's too focused on herself to realize the problem is in him and move on. So lack of communication is a good thing.Dante420 said:At this point that could be one of the worst things he could do for now,
Act NOW! No talking, taking it slow, ect. But don't take my word for it - if you prefer you can take it slow. Then after a month you can consider if it was a good idea and if things would have been easier if you had acted now.
mattarama
Don Juan
I'm going to go for it the next time we makeout...which will probably be the next time we see each other because she tends to be all for that. What about condoms? Is there any real good places for them?
Tyson420
Senior Don Juan
... Ummm your local drug store?
You live in Ontario, go to Shopper's Drug Mart... lol my god.
You live in Ontario, go to Shopper's Drug Mart... lol my god.
mattarama
Don Juan
I meant where to keep them...Haha. I have a box already.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
Your room? Glove compartment of the car (assuming it's your car).
mattarama
Don Juan
I'm probably just thinking too much about the situation, but I heard that not having it ready and on hand can really ruin a moment, but a moment can also be ruined if the condoms are found. Anyway, i probably don't have much to worry about in terms of all of this and should just work on getting sex first. lol.
mattarama
Don Juan
Was going to go for it today, but she's on her period. I just ended up testing her. She doesn't react badly to 'incidental' stimulation of her crotch by my forearm (when laying down) and held my hand where it was when i had it on her ass under her pants. looks like i was just, and still am a pussie. haha.
Tyson420
Senior Don Juan
I guarantee if you don't **** her soon someone else will do it for you.
Just the rules man.
Just the rules man.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
mattarama
Don Juan
Tried Escalating...She doesn't let me lift her shirt. I can get underneath it but can't lift it. She also doesn't let my hands go down her pants in the front or back, although she lets me play with her ass.
She still continues to makeout endlessly with me.
What should I do?
She still continues to makeout endlessly with me.
What should I do?
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mattarama
Don Juan
Any ideas why this would happen? The only thing I can come up with is that she's grown too comfortable with the way things are, and isn't allowing the relationship to change into a sexual one. Is this fixable? Or did I mess up too bad and wait too long to fix it?