Dante420
Master Don Juan
JLay87 said:
At this point that could be one of the worst things he could do for now,
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At this point that could be one of the worst things he could do for now,
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Skydiver43127
Senior Don Juan
Agreed. At this point she's probably feeling insecure thinking something in the line of "What's wrong with me? Doesn't he find me attractive? Am I a sl*t for wanting sex before he wants it?". That's why she hasn't lost interest -she's too focused on herself to realize the problem is in him and move on. So lack of communication is a good thing.Dante420 said:At this point that could be one of the worst things he could do for now,
Act NOW! No talking, taking it slow, ect. But don't take my word for it - if you prefer you can take it slow. Then after a month you can consider if it was a good idea and if things would have been easier if you had acted now.
mattarama
Don Juan
I'm going to go for it the next time we makeout...which will probably be the next time we see each other because she tends to be all for that. What about condoms? Is there any real good places for them?
Tyson420
Senior Don Juan
... Ummm your local drug store?
You live in Ontario, go to Shopper's Drug Mart... lol my god.
You live in Ontario, go to Shopper's Drug Mart... lol my god.
mattarama
Don Juan
I meant where to keep them...Haha. I have a box already.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Mr_rogers
Senior Don Juan
Your room? Glove compartment of the car (assuming it's your car).
mattarama
Don Juan
I'm probably just thinking too much about the situation, but I heard that not having it ready and on hand can really ruin a moment, but a moment can also be ruined if the condoms are found. Anyway, i probably don't have much to worry about in terms of all of this and should just work on getting sex first. lol.
mattarama
Don Juan
Was going to go for it today, but she's on her period. I just ended up testing her. She doesn't react badly to 'incidental' stimulation of her crotch by my forearm (when laying down) and held my hand where it was when i had it on her ass under her pants. looks like i was just, and still am a pussie. haha.
Tyson420
Senior Don Juan
I guarantee if you don't **** her soon someone else will do it for you.
Just the rules man.
Just the rules man.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mattarama
Don Juan
Tried Escalating...She doesn't let me lift her shirt. I can get underneath it but can't lift it. She also doesn't let my hands go down her pants in the front or back, although she lets me play with her ass.
She still continues to makeout endlessly with me.
What should I do?
She still continues to makeout endlessly with me.
What should I do?
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mattarama
Don Juan
Any ideas why this would happen? The only thing I can come up with is that she's grown too comfortable with the way things are, and isn't allowing the relationship to change into a sexual one. Is this fixable? Or did I mess up too bad and wait too long to fix it?