"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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How to respond, when a woman is interested.

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E.g. If both of you are showing medium - high interest, like hand holding and hugging etc.

When the woman pops out the questions. Do you like me? What do you want? Are you interested in anyone at the moment?

What the best way to return the answer. I remember from DD book, that you should never give a woman a straight answer unless it's "NO!" lol.

Could it be something along the lines of "Yes I like you, as a friend, then smile cheekly, to keep the light and fun mood. Or just tell her straight that you want a relationship.

Because her asking, is showing that she's wanting something right? I've had it happen too many times, where a girl has asked me what I want. And I just delayed the response, either by making her tell me, or by saying something funny like "Well I know that you like me". Isn't that enough. Sometimes it'd increase attraction but others it would be dragged on till the girls interest slowly went away.

So say you really want to get into a relationship with a girl, and you dont want to play anymore games. She seems genuine and she's asking you what you want in a relationship. What's the best way to respond? Take her seriously or just keep on flirting?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Isolate and fukk...

She's asking this cause she's ready and you're not making her move. DO NOT WAIT 0 take it to the next level.
 
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keep her guessing a little .this is her little tests .I always answer these questions with the same questions right back at her.Tell her we are having a good time right know and let nature take it course.
 
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this is what id do

this is what i would do....i would tell the biatch to go home with me....rip her fvckin clothers off...then fvck the shiet out of her...if she says no or screams...slap the biatch some more...good luck...let me know how it goes
 
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whenever a girl asks me, "do you like me" i always respond with.."well..its pretty obvious you like me" with a hella big smile. They always playfully nudge me in the arm or something which at this point you can mirror her and apply your own kino and if you think things are going very well..go in for a kiss.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by wudiez

So say you really want to get into a relationship with a girl, and you dont want to play anymore games. She seems genuine and she's asking you what you want in a relationship. What's the best way to respond? Take her seriously or just keep on flirting?
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Why are you thinking of relationships so early in the game? Is this your 15th date with this girl? I hope you are not thinking this mid way through the 2nd date. Take things slow and try to have as much fun as you can.

If she asks you want in a relationship you can either:
1. tell her whats on your mind
2. accuse her of moving tooo fast before getting to know you
3. or whatver you want just keep it funny while busting her balls.
 
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