how to respond to

[triplekaioken]

how should you respond when a girl says 'you're such a player', 'i bet you're a player' 'are you a player?'?

i seem to get ALOT of that and i don't know if im responding the right way.

i've come across 2 contradicting pieces of advice:

1)women love a player deep down because it shows you're good with women, so admit you're a player

2) don't say you're a player and pretend like you don't get many women so it says to the woman you're not going to play her and she's special

 

[n52]

I would ask what the fascination was and why she thinks you are a player.

 

[triplekaioken]

I would ask what the fascination was and why she thinks you are a player.

which piece of advice do you think is better for my game though?

1) or 2)?

 

[TheException]

1)women love a player deep down because it shows you're good with women, so admit you're a player

2) don't say you're a player and pretend like you don't get many women so it says to the woman you're not going to play her and she's special

Its neither 1 or 2......but a combination of both.

Women DO like a player deep down because its preselection. It just shows that you are competent and can attract women. It happens on a subconscious level. BUT they DO NOT like an overt display of this. Bragging and trying to communicate your sexual energy with WORDS will get you nowhere.

So....you combine both 1 and 2. You never deny being a player, but you dont admit it either. You "pretend" to not be a player but NOT because shes special, you do it as fun and take it to the extreme. Heres some examples:

HB:'you're such a player',
You: "......Only on Tuesdays" + smirk

HB:'i bet you're a player'
You: "Well how much did ya bet? Maybe I can help you make some money" + smirk

HB:'are you a player?'?
You: "I wish....i still havent even kissed a girl. Im scared of getting the cooties"

Get it? You never answer the question, but come off as playful and fun.

 

[triplekaioken]

Its neither 1 or 2......but a combination of both.

Women DO like a player deep down because its preselection. It just shows that you are competent and can attract women. It happens on a subconscious level. BUT they DO NOT like an overt display of this. Bragging and trying to communicate your sexual energy with WORDS will get you nowhere.

So....you combine both 1 and 2. You never deny being a player, but you dont admit it either. You "pretend" to not be a player but NOT because shes special, you do it as fun and take it to the extreme. Heres some examples:

HB:'you're such a player',
You: "......Only on Tuesdays" + smirk

HB:'i bet you're a player'
You: "Well how much did ya bet? Maybe I can help you make some money" + smirk

HB:'are you a player?'?
You: "I wish....i still havent even kissed a girl. Im scared of getting the cooties"

Get it? You never answer the question, but come off as playful and fun.

lovely. thanks

 

[Tictac]

http://www.returnofkings.com/28049/...mesages-girls-send-and-how-to-respond-to-them

 

[n52]

http://www.returnofkings.com/28049/...mesages-girls-send-and-how-to-respond-to-them

Haha some of those are priceless!