"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how to respond to ****y chicks over text?

jay07

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Me and this chick have a history together, but all of a sudden she initiates contact out of nowhere, im trying to get a lay out of it but i think she wants me to denounce to some dude who tells her how awesome she is or something.

Shes being ****y as hell with her responses (so am i) but its just making me want to give her a reality check.

I.E.
Her: You know me, and me and mornings never work :)
Me: True but i dont take my comment back
Her: About me bein lame? Dont think so
Me: And you know me, and my opinion trumps yours
Her: You know i always win ;)
Me: In dream land?
Her: No in real life and you know it

I sense seriousness in her last response to where shes gonna bring up something that happend to try and win this conversation. But i still want to get a lay tonight so im confused if i should keep playing this charade, or just let her hear what she wants to hear.

Thoughts?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jay07

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Haha i should have.

So i go, its 6 pm time for you to wake up
-Im def awake!
-you must be talking about winning at sandwhich making then, yep you win


Expecting to get either ignored or 2 word response
 

Groblin

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Probably not helping your chances by getting into a pissing contest with her. Stop taking her so seriously, I'd say. Someone else will probably post what you should have said, I'm just looking at the mental approach.
 
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