"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to Respond to Text

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I just got a text from a woman who I worked with years ago. She wrote "Hi Sigma just wondering what you are up to these days hope as is well." Do I reply to the text or call? I think there was some attraction when we worked together nothing came of it though.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yea we met once for lunch after we worked together. My memory came back a little from that. I was so AFC at the time lol, she was coming on to me I didnt pick it up. I remember her kinda touching my feet with her feet under the table and I didnt think anything of it. She was dating someone in the office I think after that we were suppose to hangout again but it never happend and we fell out of contact. That was in 07 we worked together in 06. She takes care of herself and is nice 8/7.5, I think she is a couple years older than me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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