"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to Respond to Text

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I just got a text from a woman who I worked with years ago. She wrote "Hi Sigma just wondering what you are up to these days hope as is well." Do I reply to the text or call? I think there was some attraction when we worked together nothing came of it though.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yea we met once for lunch after we worked together. My memory came back a little from that. I was so AFC at the time lol, she was coming on to me I didnt pick it up. I remember her kinda touching my feet with her feet under the table and I didnt think anything of it. She was dating someone in the office I think after that we were suppose to hangout again but it never happend and we fell out of contact. That was in 07 we worked together in 06. She takes care of herself and is nice 8/7.5, I think she is a couple years older than me.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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