"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to respond to comments on my height

CoolRunning

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I'm 6'4" and very comfortable with that. I consider it a DHV.

Quite often, I get comments like,

HB: OMG, you're so tall! [said when I get up from a chair or something]

HB: How tall are you? [IOI in conversation]

Normally I usually respond "Yeah, I am aren't I" or "6'4", how tall are you"?

Anyone of you tall guys got any good C&F or DHV replies to this that have field tested and used?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Delta

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being tall IS a plus.

best way to respond is with HUMOR. others may make comments innocently or to try to make you feel insecure. if you respond AT ALL defensively, they win.

respond LIGHTLY and with humor and even self deprecating humor. and it almost DOESN'T MATTER what you say as long as it is done with nonchalance, humor and friendliness.

maybe "if you think i'm tall, you should see my c0ck!"... something silly.... give up the number 6'4" if that's what they're after.... just keep it light and self deprecating and never let it phase you.

delta
 

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Just to be clear, I have no problem with it and ever since I started talking to women, no one has ever said it in a negative way. It has always been positive. I would just like a better way to respond to it. The c0ck line seems kind of incongruent with my personality.

Maybe...

"Yeah, and I play basketball. Who would have thought??"
"Nosy, aren't you. Do you want to see my bank account balance as well? <smile>"
"6 foot 4 inches of sexy"

I dunno...
 

Delta

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oh. i see.

well good. you're in a good way then. just need to find some clever things to say.

i guess first thing would be give up the number cuz that's what they're after and then....

"yeah, i got hoop dreams coach..."
"and it killed my dreams of becoming a jockey... thanks for bringing me down!"
"thank you. yeah, i had to work long and hard to get this tall. years and years of working out. this doesn't JUST HAPPEN you know."
"my mom never lets me forget. she makes me listen to the recording of her giving birth every birthday. you've never heard such screaming! and the swearing! and when she starts screaming 'kill me!'... man, it's pretty intense! so what are you going to order?"
"yes, i enjoy looking down on the world and laughing at all the little people scurrying around like bugs. it makes me feel like god. gives me that warm sensation inside.. you know?"
"yeah, but one bad thing is that i don't really recognize people from their faces... i know everybody from the tops of their heads... and it gets confusing as heck anytime anybody gets a haircut!"

luck

delta
 

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Holy ****. Did you come up with those just now? some of those are great.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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CoolRunning said:
"6 foot 4 inches of sexy"
Golden!

How about "6 foot 4 inches,and I'm not talking about my height,just think about it"(& wink,to let her know you are kidding)
 

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thanks... yup... right off the top o me wittle head.

go get em.

delta
 

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....

Just thought I'd throw in my 2c....

Reply
: "You know what they say... The sky is the limit... dont rush me, I'm getting there;)"


Laterz...
 
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