"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How to respond to comments on my height

CoolRunning

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I'm 6'4" and very comfortable with that. I consider it a DHV.

Quite often, I get comments like,

HB: OMG, you're so tall! [said when I get up from a chair or something]

HB: How tall are you? [IOI in conversation]

Normally I usually respond "Yeah, I am aren't I" or "6'4", how tall are you"?

Anyone of you tall guys got any good C&F or DHV replies to this that have field tested and used?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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being tall IS a plus.

best way to respond is with HUMOR. others may make comments innocently or to try to make you feel insecure. if you respond AT ALL defensively, they win.

respond LIGHTLY and with humor and even self deprecating humor. and it almost DOESN'T MATTER what you say as long as it is done with nonchalance, humor and friendliness.

maybe "if you think i'm tall, you should see my c0ck!"... something silly.... give up the number 6'4" if that's what they're after.... just keep it light and self deprecating and never let it phase you.

delta
 

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Just to be clear, I have no problem with it and ever since I started talking to women, no one has ever said it in a negative way. It has always been positive. I would just like a better way to respond to it. The c0ck line seems kind of incongruent with my personality.

Maybe...

"Yeah, and I play basketball. Who would have thought??"
"Nosy, aren't you. Do you want to see my bank account balance as well? <smile>"
"6 foot 4 inches of sexy"

I dunno...
 

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oh. i see.

well good. you're in a good way then. just need to find some clever things to say.

i guess first thing would be give up the number cuz that's what they're after and then....

"yeah, i got hoop dreams coach..."
"and it killed my dreams of becoming a jockey... thanks for bringing me down!"
"thank you. yeah, i had to work long and hard to get this tall. years and years of working out. this doesn't JUST HAPPEN you know."
"my mom never lets me forget. she makes me listen to the recording of her giving birth every birthday. you've never heard such screaming! and the swearing! and when she starts screaming 'kill me!'... man, it's pretty intense! so what are you going to order?"
"yes, i enjoy looking down on the world and laughing at all the little people scurrying around like bugs. it makes me feel like god. gives me that warm sensation inside.. you know?"
"yeah, but one bad thing is that i don't really recognize people from their faces... i know everybody from the tops of their heads... and it gets confusing as heck anytime anybody gets a haircut!"

luck

delta
 

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Holy ****. Did you come up with those just now? some of those are great.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CoolRunning said:
"6 foot 4 inches of sexy"
Golden!

How about "6 foot 4 inches,and I'm not talking about my height,just think about it"(& wink,to let her know you are kidding)
 

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thanks... yup... right off the top o me wittle head.

go get em.

delta
 

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....

Just thought I'd throw in my 2c....

Reply
: "You know what they say... The sky is the limit... dont rush me, I'm getting there;)"


Laterz...
 
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