"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how to respond to a women's neg?

rocco

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was just wondering how you guys would respond to a woman negging you? usually when i get negged, i suck at having a good comeback. because i dont want to say something that will be interpreted as i took what she said too personally, nor do i dont want to appear as a wimp. i guess it may be a sign of some of my insecurities. advice?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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paraguayandj

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tell yo momma's jokes that works for me
 

rocco

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well the way that i see it is, if guys here are encouraged to neg a woman, and when a guy gets negged by a woman and takes it personal, that just shows insecurity.
 

Tha Realnezz

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Ugh I hate when girls do them,girls are fawking evil.

They think saying **** like "SHut the **** up" AS LOUD AS POSSIBLE and then giggling afterwards makes it a neg hit.It's like the find the most embarassing thing to point out about you and saying it in a joking voice makes it okay or funny.

Puerto Rican girls I noticed think doing **** like that is attactrive.

I just look at them like...:up: and go on my way.

I think girls that do that are nerds who aren't used to being hit on or just flat jealous(usually it's a fine girl you're just not into for whatever reason who blurts out something crazy just to say something).

To answer the question I don't respond if it sounds "mean" cuz intentionally or unintetionally that's not someone you want to be with.
 
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