was just wondering how you guys would respond to a woman negging you? usually when i get negged, i suck at having a good comeback. because i dont want to say something that will be interpreted as i took what she said too personally, nor do i dont want to appear as a wimp. i guess it may be a sign of some of my insecurities. advice?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
how to respond to a women's neg?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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tell yo momma's jokes that works for me
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Ugh I hate when girls do them,girls are fawking evil.
They think saying **** like "SHut the **** up" AS LOUD AS POSSIBLE and then giggling afterwards makes it a neg hit.It's like the find the most embarassing thing to point out about you and saying it in a joking voice makes it okay or funny.
Puerto Rican girls I noticed think doing **** like that is attactrive.
I just look at them like...
and go on my way.
I think girls that do that are nerds who aren't used to being hit on or just flat jealous(usually it's a fine girl you're just not into for whatever reason who blurts out something crazy just to say something).
To answer the question I don't respond if it sounds "mean" cuz intentionally or unintetionally that's not someone you want to be with.
They think saying **** like "SHut the **** up" AS LOUD AS POSSIBLE and then giggling afterwards makes it a neg hit.It's like the find the most embarassing thing to point out about you and saying it in a joking voice makes it okay or funny.
Puerto Rican girls I noticed think doing **** like that is attactrive.
I just look at them like...
and go on my way.I think girls that do that are nerds who aren't used to being hit on or just flat jealous(usually it's a fine girl you're just not into for whatever reason who blurts out something crazy just to say something).
To answer the question I don't respond if it sounds "mean" cuz intentionally or unintetionally that's not someone you want to be with.