Alex DeLarge
Master Don Juan
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"Ok, well I'm gonna go make a sandwich. see ya"
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How To Respond To A Girl Who Dumps You Over Facebook (or Text)
- Thread starter runner83
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
SamTheHobit
Master Don Juan
lol xDEuropean-DJ said:What about a plane simple;
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I think this would fvck up the poor girls mind?
- I would like some response to this answer please!
Duracell_Bunny
Senior Don Juan
Golden.Alex DeLarge said:
Solomon
Master Don Juan
Question
DO women really break off relationship via facebook?
I'm sorry but I rather do it in person that way there is no b.s. unless the relationship was a FWB or super casual if it's serious at least I can do it that way unless the circumstances are fucced up
DO women really break off relationship via facebook?
I'm sorry but I rather do it in person that way there is no b.s. unless the relationship was a FWB or super casual if it's serious at least I can do it that way unless the circumstances are fucced up
guys serious why so many new responses? nothing you say will make it a win for you, stay quiet, she break up over text? don't matter, she is not even worth the damn time to type a ok, just ignore her starting now
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Tictac
Banned
Roissy is right. Getting e-dumped is the perfect opportunity to go ghost and for many reasons.
No reply whatever.
No reply whatever.