How to respond to a girl saying "you play games with me"

[BigKuta]

What if some of the things you were doing started being interpreted "games" and gets brought up by the girl. Say she confronts you saying "you play games with me". How do you respond?

For instance. I've had to travel to the East coast quite a bit recently, while she is on the other side. This means the frequency of our evening conversations has dwindled. Also she is big on texting and due to getting busy there are times where it takes me a while to respond.

It seems to me that she is the one who has started playing games. Tried calling two nights ago. Received a text telling me her phone was about to die and she was about to enter an out of service area. I looked at her Facebook and noticed she was posting via her phone for an hour straight afterwards. Texted her 10 min later asking for her to call back when she got a chance or txt me when she was available to talk. She hasnt responded to the text ever since.

 

[rocket87]

Common manipulatory tactic. She knows that she is playing games with you, so her tacking it on you is an attempt to justify it and "turn the tables."

Go f*** something else in the meantime. I would drop all contact and/or tell her "when you grow up lemme know and I'll consider hanging out with you again."

 

[SamTheHobit]

By using common sense and not on relying on other people to solve your social situations.

 

[comic_relief]

"I like playing sexual games :yes: "

- comic_relief

 

[terran2k]

i like comic_relief's answer.

 

[BigKuta]

Still no response to my phone call. On top of this I was on skype last night with my status set to invisible. saw she was logged on for 20 minutes. When I switched my status to online, she jumps offline. She then logs on 10 minutes later to immediately log off again. I am done with this girl.

 

[TehMachine]

Still no response to my phone call. On top of this I was on skype last night with my status set to invisible. saw she was logged on for 20 minutes. When I switched my status to online, she jumps offline. She then logs on 10 minutes later to immediately log off again. I am done with this girl.

I've been there, man. The mere fact that you're second-guessing everything and feel it's necessary to "survey" her (with the invisible mode, etc.) is more than a red flag. It's an alarm bell. Get out.

 

[princesimba]

im in a kinda similar situation right now, and i know i have to get out. The question is, how to respond the next time she initiaites contact?