Lately after a lot of kino, teasing and signs of interest, When going for the kiss on first dates I get the question of isnt it too soon for a kiss ? ,, I usually play it cool and keep push pull,, but sometimes I dont have an answer for when they ask that.. how would you guys play along that question ?
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How to respond in the Don Juan way
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Mr_Maximus
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Just say no.
If she pushes you away. Try again in a short while.
If she pushes you away. Try again in a short while.
sylvester the cat
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Her: Isn't it too soon for a kiss?
You: Yes. Far too soon. (Kissing her anyway)
You: Yes. Far too soon. (Kissing her anyway)
Rainman4707
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Her :- isn't it to soon for a kiss?
Rainman :- (looking in her eyes with a look like I want to have her) I want to kiss you.
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Roni "I usually play it cool and keep push pull,, but sometimes I dont have an answer for when they ask that"
:nono: not my way I like to go for what I want, although don't force yourself upon her
I've had like twenty dates & only one hasn't snogged me.
My method :-
Rainman :- You want to kiss me don't you (have confident body language, like some say it's not what you say, but how you say it)
HB :- do I!?
Rainman :- Yes I think you do =)
HB & Rainman looking at each other smiling...tension in the air
Rainman :- I want to kiss you
Sometimes they will say "well come over & do it then" sometimes I slowly, smoothly get hold of them & kiss them.
Rainman :- (looking in her eyes with a look like I want to have her) I want to kiss you.
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Roni "I usually play it cool and keep push pull,, but sometimes I dont have an answer for when they ask that"
:nono: not my way I like to go for what I want, although don't force yourself upon her
I've had like twenty dates & only one hasn't snogged me.
My method :-
Rainman :- You want to kiss me don't you (have confident body language, like some say it's not what you say, but how you say it)
HB :- do I!?
Rainman :- Yes I think you do =)
HB & Rainman looking at each other smiling...tension in the air
Rainman :- I want to kiss you
Sometimes they will say "well come over & do it then" sometimes I slowly, smoothly get hold of them & kiss them.
stevo
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After a lot of kino that should not be the response you get. If you continuously get that, you should look into what you're doing wrong.
As to your question.
If she asks isnt it too soon to kiss?
I'll respond with: I knew I wanted to kiss you from the moment I picked you up, holding off any longer now would be torture (as I walk even closer, putting my hands on her waist, pull her closer).
After saying that I still wont kiss her yet till about 5 seconds later. Just stare at her lips, eyes, lips then kiss while she replays everything I just said.
As to your question.
If she asks isnt it too soon to kiss?
I'll respond with: I knew I wanted to kiss you from the moment I picked you up, holding off any longer now would be torture (as I walk even closer, putting my hands on her waist, pull her closer).
After saying that I still wont kiss her yet till about 5 seconds later. Just stare at her lips, eyes, lips then kiss while she replays everything I just said.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Vulpine
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"You'd be sorry you waited." *kiss her anyway*
Or...
"Shut up." *kiss her anyway*
Or...
Get up, walk away.
Then forget about her and find some other women to kiss.
Or...
Look at your watch and say: "You're right. It's only 7:08. Everyone knows that you can't kiss anyone before 7:10." Then stand around, anxiously checking your watch, tapping your feet, looking around as if you're bored. Then, at 7:10, DON'T try to kiss her again. Look at her like she's stupid until she does something. When she asks why you aren't kissing her, tell her: "I felt like kissing you before; I don't feel like kissing you now." Then shrug and walk away because, while you were waiting for those two minutes, you spotted a hot chick you wanted to chat up.
Or...
"Why, are you a vampire or something? Can't kiss before dark? Or, I can't get you wet, like a Gremlin? You might start smokin' and shakin', shooting out little furball gremlins? Next you'll be telling me that it's too late for you to eat, huh? Maybe I want to see you smokin' and shakin'."
Or...
"Let's check and see what the kissing rulebook says about it."
Or...
"Have you ever had cold pizza for breakfast?"
Or...
"Shut up." *kiss her anyway*
Or...
Get up, walk away.
Then forget about her and find some other women to kiss.
Or...
Look at your watch and say: "You're right. It's only 7:08. Everyone knows that you can't kiss anyone before 7:10." Then stand around, anxiously checking your watch, tapping your feet, looking around as if you're bored. Then, at 7:10, DON'T try to kiss her again. Look at her like she's stupid until she does something. When she asks why you aren't kissing her, tell her: "I felt like kissing you before; I don't feel like kissing you now." Then shrug and walk away because, while you were waiting for those two minutes, you spotted a hot chick you wanted to chat up.
Or...
"Why, are you a vampire or something? Can't kiss before dark? Or, I can't get you wet, like a Gremlin? You might start smokin' and shakin', shooting out little furball gremlins? Next you'll be telling me that it's too late for you to eat, huh? Maybe I want to see you smokin' and shakin'."
Or...
"Let's check and see what the kissing rulebook says about it."
Or...
"Have you ever had cold pizza for breakfast?"
