How to respond after 2 months of NC?

[Von_S]

Original Thread here

Never heard back from her after our last date; I just ignored her and went about my business. Now this morning, I get a text: "Hey how are you? Happy Valentines Day, How's the new job??".

Its been 2 months since I saw or talked to this girl. In fact I deleted her number from my phone. I figured out it was her due to the area code where she's originally from.

So how do you suggest I handle this? I can flat out ask "who's this?" and be coy or just pick up where we left off "Hey I'm good, been busy with work (and nailing other chicks), how have you been?"

Suggestions?

 

[oneboy21]

So here is the reason why she sent you a message on valentine's day
She is out of her plates, for some reason
and she if going to feel lonely with out a guy, so she is sending a mass message to all the numbers. Her gf's might have guys for tonight parties.
In this circumstances she will wait for an hour or so for you to respond, if you don't she will go with other guys.

Now its up to you what you wanna do, If you are i nterested in meeting her, send a response and she will meet you tonight, If you are not interested ignore the text.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Continue No Contact.

The girl is lonely on V-day and she's texting anyone in her phone.

 

[vatoloco]

Continue No Contact.

The girl is lonely on V-day and she's texting anyone in her phone.

^^^ THIS. +1

Now, if you know know what you're doing and can keep your emotions in check, do this. However, if your Game it's not up there yet, just stay NC.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Guys these days need to be consistant. When you decide to drop a chick, actualy drop her. After a certain amount of time of no contact I actually drop a chick. That means her number is deleted and if she trys to contact me I ignore it. This is to prevent myself from wasting my time. I rather not spend my time idle chatting with woman unless it's benefiting me somehow.

 

[window]

mate I read your other thread, this girl is interested, always has been...ask her out again,

 

[Jariel]

You could look at it in a cynical way and think she's just using you for attention on a lonely valentine's day, or you can use this opportunity to get chatting, build rapport and get laid.

I've had some great sex and great times with women on the rebound or who contacted me after a long period of no contact.

In fact, my last serious girlfriend originally rejected me when I asked her out, disappeared for a while and then got back in touch and we were together for 5 years.