"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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How to reset frame after sounding like her dad

Giantsfan88

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Once again I've successfully landed myself in the nice guy pu$$y zone of a girl I was trying not to fvck up with. Maybe not trying to mess up was the cause of it. Anyway, some bad weather has put off a couple of dates with me and this chick. The couple of dates postponed would have been the third date. The first postponed one I called because the weather was really bad like stay off the streets bad and remarked "don't want you heading out in this weather let's reschedule." Next postponed date she postpones it and I text "I know you want to and I just heard the roads are gonna be bad so I'd rather you not drive in them. Talk to you later"

:cuss: I just flung her into a bad a$$ alpha's arms. I don't know if I literally did yet but she will be there soon. A bad a$$ alpha is what I'm striving for in my game and I fvcked it up with her. How do I at least make her think I'm bada$$ alpha and not her father if I can't ever be her boyfriend?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Giantsfan88

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I'd appreciate a reply because I'm having a hard time dealing with her perception of me as her dad and that other guys could have way better game than me and could be surpassing me this minute
 

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Don't be a baked bean

Giantsfan88 said:
I'd appreciate a reply because I'm having a hard time dealing with her perception of me as her dad and that other guys could have way better game than me and could be surpassing me this minute
You're not going to like this answer but I'm going to post it anyway. You've got her on a pedestal. The fact you've gone as far as posting a thread asking strangers for advice is proof of this. Time to bring her down a notch or ten.

The truth is she wants to like you. She might even be into you if her replies are anything to go by but the fact is you're not making her little 'gina tingle. You're a bit boring and a bit nice and a bit predictable.

Make that 'gina tingle. How? First off, forget about her. Yes you heard correctly. Wash your hands of her and start chasing some other poonani. Why? Because this will stop you being so damned obsessive about her and it might actually get her thinking about you to the point where she just has to see you. Right now she knows she can have you any time she wants. A bit like baked beans. And there's nothing more boring than baked beans. This might not make sense on a surface level but way down there, where' it actually matters - it makes a whole lot of sense. To tickle that 'gina, you've got to tickle her brain as the two are both connected. The army knew this. Hearts and minds. Hearts and minds.
 

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You're not going to like this answer but I'm going to post it anyway. You've got her on a pedestal. The fact you've gone as far as posting a thread asking strangers for advice is proof of this. Time to bring her down a notch or ten.

The truth is she wants to like you. She might even be into you if her replies are anything to go by but the fact is you're not making her little 'gina tingle. You're a bit boring and a bit nice and a bit predictable.

Make that 'gina tingle. How? First off, forget about her. Yes you heard correctly. Wash your hands of her and start chasing some other poonani. Why? Because this will stop you being so damned obsessive about her and it might actually get her thinking about you to the point where she just has to see you. Right now she knows she can have you any time she wants. A bit like baked beans. And there's nothing more boring than baked beans. This might not make sense on a surface level but way down there, where' it actually matters - it makes a whole lot of sense. To tickle that 'gina, you've got to tickle her brain as the two are both connected. The army knew this. Hearts and minds. Hearts and minds.
Conquer the mind and the body will follow.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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