"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to reset frame after sounding like her dad

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Once again I've successfully landed myself in the nice guy pu$$y zone of a girl I was trying not to fvck up with. Maybe not trying to mess up was the cause of it. Anyway, some bad weather has put off a couple of dates with me and this chick. The couple of dates postponed would have been the third date. The first postponed one I called because the weather was really bad like stay off the streets bad and remarked "don't want you heading out in this weather let's reschedule." Next postponed date she postpones it and I text "I know you want to and I just heard the roads are gonna be bad so I'd rather you not drive in them. Talk to you later"

:cuss: I just flung her into a bad a$$ alpha's arms. I don't know if I literally did yet but she will be there soon. A bad a$$ alpha is what I'm striving for in my game and I fvcked it up with her. How do I at least make her think I'm bada$$ alpha and not her father if I can't ever be her boyfriend?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I'd appreciate a reply because I'm having a hard time dealing with her perception of me as her dad and that other guys could have way better game than me and could be surpassing me this minute
 

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Don't be a baked bean

Giantsfan88 said:
I'd appreciate a reply because I'm having a hard time dealing with her perception of me as her dad and that other guys could have way better game than me and could be surpassing me this minute
You're not going to like this answer but I'm going to post it anyway. You've got her on a pedestal. The fact you've gone as far as posting a thread asking strangers for advice is proof of this. Time to bring her down a notch or ten.

The truth is she wants to like you. She might even be into you if her replies are anything to go by but the fact is you're not making her little 'gina tingle. You're a bit boring and a bit nice and a bit predictable.

Make that 'gina tingle. How? First off, forget about her. Yes you heard correctly. Wash your hands of her and start chasing some other poonani. Why? Because this will stop you being so damned obsessive about her and it might actually get her thinking about you to the point where she just has to see you. Right now she knows she can have you any time she wants. A bit like baked beans. And there's nothing more boring than baked beans. This might not make sense on a surface level but way down there, where' it actually matters - it makes a whole lot of sense. To tickle that 'gina, you've got to tickle her brain as the two are both connected. The army knew this. Hearts and minds. Hearts and minds.
 

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You're not going to like this answer but I'm going to post it anyway. You've got her on a pedestal. The fact you've gone as far as posting a thread asking strangers for advice is proof of this. Time to bring her down a notch or ten.

The truth is she wants to like you. She might even be into you if her replies are anything to go by but the fact is you're not making her little 'gina tingle. You're a bit boring and a bit nice and a bit predictable.

Make that 'gina tingle. How? First off, forget about her. Yes you heard correctly. Wash your hands of her and start chasing some other poonani. Why? Because this will stop you being so damned obsessive about her and it might actually get her thinking about you to the point where she just has to see you. Right now she knows she can have you any time she wants. A bit like baked beans. And there's nothing more boring than baked beans. This might not make sense on a surface level but way down there, where' it actually matters - it makes a whole lot of sense. To tickle that 'gina, you've got to tickle her brain as the two are both connected. The army knew this. Hearts and minds. Hearts and minds.
Conquer the mind and the body will follow.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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