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How to rescue a missing #-close?

Mister101

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Hi Guys,

maybe you can help me out on this one: Yesterday, I was representing the (quite elite) student organisation I am working for on a fair on campus. Right across the hallway where the booths were situated was the booth of another organisation, let's call it "A". The overall attendance of the fair was not very high, so I had time to occupy myself with something else:

One of the Students (a m/f-mixed team) working for "A" was a HB9 (honestly), so I immediately switched into DJ mode and went over to introduce myself, as we would be spending at least a couple of hours looking at each other from across the hallway ;)

Everything went quite okay, she turned out to be very nice and down-to-earth. We found out that we had a lot in common and had a couple of interesting conversations, of course sometimes interrupted by students coming to either one's booth.

Unfortunately, she was suddenly gone to get something, and just did not return. I had another appointment and had to leave and left the hallway toward the exit. There she stood, talking to an older guy, obviously in order to get an internship or something. I did not want to interrupt their conversation too much, so I just touched her on the shoulder slightly and said something like "Goodbye, see you around." She smiled and said something similar.

Afterwards I was quite mad at myself for not asking any kind of number/email from her. But maybe there is still hope:

A Girl in my organisation knows her from class and sees her on mondays and tuesdays (that's 6 days from now). I could either ask her for that Girl's number, or have her give her a message or something.

The other possibililty is that I write an email to her organisation's office, asking them for some means of communication, while making it look like it's a professional, not a personal affair I have to settle ;)

Also, I could show up at one of their club meetings (also 6 days from today) and try to talk to her again.

Although I'm quite sure that I made a good impression on her, I don't know if 6 days won't be too long for her to remember me the way I deserve to be remembered ;)

What could I do to save a screwed up #-close? This one is definitely worth it.

Mitster101
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

DankNuggs

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You want to go from DJ to dork in 2.2 seconds?


Wait until you see her again, she obviously thinks of you favorably right now regardless of romantic interest. You will do nothing but look desperate passing high school notes to her and her friends.

Wait until you see her again around campus, and start another conversation (you obviously have a number of lead-ins to conversation now)

Thats it....


PATIENCE..........
 

Mister101

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That's the problem...I won't see her on campus as there are three colleges here in town and we're not at the same one...
 

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I'm sure that you will have at least one break during your day. Since you have a friend in one of her classes, go visit your friend either before or after class and "bump" into her.

If you're not free that hour, you can use the organizational connections, i.e: panhellenic, student affairs, IFC, SGA to find the angle to see her again.

Obviously, we can't jump your case as she was called away before you could number close. Some might say that you're sounding pretty desperate to see her again for your next move. I'm thinking a casual conversation with a hottie shouldn't elicit such emotion. I mean, why work that hard? You're on campus; you're seeing 10 or 20 hotties in a day, at least.

If you guys are greek, i.e.: sorority/fraternity, you might try to work a swap.

Check the calander at your university for her organizations functions and attend one that interests you - for the event, not the girl. If you focus on the girl, you will lose before you start. Don't focus on the girl until she tells you how she feels about you, assuming a positive feeling.
 

Mister101

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Originally posted by Big Pappy
Obviously, we can't jump your case as she was called away before you could number close.

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If you guys are greek, i.e.: sorority/fraternity, you might try to work a swap.
I'm sorry, I'm not a native speaker, what do you mean by "jumping my case" or "working a swap"?

101
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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