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[dustmuffin]

She sent me two email comments about new photos I posted. I replied. I have been out with her twice. Bj first date. F uck second. How should I answer this? Tried to set up another date and she didn't reply. That is when she commented on my photos. Thoughts?

She commented on your photo

This is a cute pic..

Received 8:27 PM

She commented on your photo

You should take this one off…you are much cuter than this and your other ones are better. (just my opinion)

Received 8:28 PM

Me: My cuteness wants...

My cuteness wants to go out with your cuteness. I asked you to martin park no answer.....Oh well if you want to go out you know where I am.....

Read Apr 21 | Sent 8:43 PM

Her: I know you did…...

I know you did… thank you, that was very nice of you! I was outside at recess when I read your message. I just don't know if that's a good idea or not.. How's your big fat cat? Have you met anyone else you like? I'm so tired of first dates… always talking about the same stupid things because the other person doesn't know you.. Tomorrow is Friday! Yay

 

[dude99]

She sent me two email comments about new photos I posted. I replied. I have been out with her twice. Bj first date. F uck second. How should I answer this? Tried to set up another date and she didn't reply. That is when she commented on my photos. Thoughts?

She commented on your photo

This is a cute pic..

Received 8:27 PM

She commented on your photo

You should take this one off…you are much cuter than this and your other ones are better. (just my opinion)

Received 8:28 PM

Me: My cuteness wants...

My cuteness wants to go out with your cuteness. I asked you to martin park no answer.....Oh well if you want to go out you know where I am.....

Read Apr 21 | Sent 8:43 PM

Her: I know you did…...

I know you did… thank you, that was very nice of you! I was outside at recess when I read your message. I just don't know if that's a good idea or not.. How's your big fat cat? Have you met anyone else you like? I'm so tired of first dates… always talking about the same stupid things because the other person doesn't know you.. Tomorrow is Friday! Yay

Recess???? How young is this girl? I hope she is a teacher.
Clearly from that response she is not into you. I wouldn't even reply. Next.

 

[dustmuffin]

Recess???? How young is this girl? I hope she is a teacher.
Clearly from that response she is not into you. I wouldn't even reply. Next.

Kindergarten teacher. She was into me enough to suck my **** on the first date and f uck me on the second. I am ready to next her. That is defiantly an option.

 

[guru1000]

Her IL is low/medium.

Shock, invite, disappear:

Ya, I agree. Not that fond of first dates. Second dates are great because of all the fvcking =) I have a busy day, lots of meetings. Let me know when you are ready to get together. Take care <NAME>.

Or you can just disappear. I like to imprint a mark before my ejection.

If she doesn't respond or responds with anything other than an unequivocal time and place, disappear. Throw her number into your batch of "ghosted" women, which next month--if you choose--you can mass text "I'd like you to join me for a drink at XYZ at x p.m."

 

[dustmuffin]

Her IL is low/medium.

Shock, invite, disappear:


Or you can just disappear. I like to fvck with their heads before my ejection.

If she doesn't respond or responds with anything other than an unequivocal time and place, disappear. Throw her number into your batch of "ghosted" women, which next month--if you choose--you can spam text "I'd like you to join me for a drink at XYZ at x p.m."

Will this work on an older women? She is 49. Plus when I spam a ghosted woman if she dosent reply just try it again in a month or two?

 

[guru1000]

Did you not fvck her on the second date?

You are Mr. Nice Friend to her right now, where she feels she can ignore your date request, comment on what photos you NEED to attract OTHER women, and confide in you how her OTHER dates are going. Instead of, chasing you and asking you out to keep you away from other women.

The frame (as much as I don't like using this word anymore) is compromised.

Always be prepared to lose the subject; especially one whose attempts are covertly emasculating.

 

[guru1000]

. Plus when I spam a ghosted woman if she dosent reply just try it again in a month or two?

I always give ghosted women one more chance, one month later. If no compliance one month later, then I eject permanently. Like I mentioned to you, I fvcked over one dozen ghosted women (10-15% of the total ghosted), that other DJs might have walked away from. I care not about rejection or her IL, only my own. But, after two rejections, that percentage of success drops to <1%.

 

[dustmuffin]

Did you not fvck her on the second date?

You are Mr. Nice Friend to her right now, where she feels she can ignore your date request, comment on what photos you NEED to attract OTHER women, and confide in you how her OTHER dates are going. Instead of, chasing you and asking you out to keep you away from other women.

The frame (as much as I don't like using this word anymore) is compromised.

Always be prepared to lose the subject; especially one whose attempts are covertly emasculating.

Thank you..sending text now. You are right I was probably to nice to her on second date. I am working on being more of an ass hole.

 

[MrWiggles]

dude how old are you?

 

[dustmuffin]

dude how old are you?

I'm 52 and have been dating women from upper 20s to low 50s....why do you ask?

 

[dustmuffin]

Ok sent text....thanks everyone for the advice. I'm still very new to this.

 

[guru1000]

I am working on being more of an ass hole.

Dustmuffin, I never had a girl treat me like a friend, whether I fvcked them or not. With me, it's usually binary--either accept my invite or ignore me.

This means while you are a good rapport builder, you are also giving off a vibe where these women FEEL they can treat you in this manner. You're not a cute little fuzzy cat like your avatar; you're a ballsy, ferocious, shameless lion. I don't know you well; this may be your personality, but I'm bringing this to your awareness. I don't want women thinking they can treat you in this manner. You're better than this.

 

[dude99]

Kindergarten teacher. She was into me enough to suck my **** on the first date and f uck me on the second. I am ready to next her. That is defiantly an option.

If she did rhe physical suff then it sounds like to me she used you to get under the skin of another dude. She did the deed with you so she could throw it in the face of another guy. That is why her behaviour got weird after. Hate to say it. You were used.

 

[dude99]

dude how old are you?

Im 43.

 

[dustmuffin]

Dustmuffin, I never had a girl treat me like a friend, whether I fvcked them or not. With me, it's usually binary--either accept my invite or ignore me.

This means while you are a good rapport builder, you are also giving off a vibe where these women FEEL they can treat you in this manner. You're not a cute little fuzzy cat like your avatar; you're a ballsy, ferocious, shameless lion. I don't know you well; this may be your personality, but I'm bringing this to your awareness. I don't want women thinking they can treat you in this manner. You're better than this.

I know I am to kind to women. I am working on it. It comes from 22 years of being a doormat for my ex wife. I know the issue. I can fix it. I was once an ass hole....ex wife beat it out of me.

 

[marmel75]

I would say it indicates she wasn't all that thrilled with your performance in the bedroom.

If I just fvcked a chick and she gave me that reply I would probably delete the number and not respond. It's obvious she isn't all the interested.

 

[CMNILS87]

Your response there ----^ something just doesn't sit right when i'm reading it. It comes off as pushy, needy, and leaves her to reply or not. It just comes off as a chump like you got your feelings hurt.

Her reply is just a cluster **** of... low interest.
1. Shes telling you meeting up again is a bad idea. She doesn't want to see you, but loves the attention
2. Shes segueing with a question about your cat to deflect and let you down easy
3. Have you met anyone else??? **** test in text form. what girl of high value does that? none
4. Complaining about first dates? Another **** test for jealousy or for you to be an emotional tampon. You must not have come across as super high value otherwise she would have set you apart from the other dates shes complaining about.
5. Shes trying to let you down easy to keep you orbiting.
6. Was she screaming when you were boinking her? if not, that could be the problem

Obviously you didn't bang her good enough or the ***** has a couple other irons in the fire.

EJECT

 

[dustmuffin]

Her reply is just a cluster **** of... low interest.
1. Shes telling you meeting up again is a bad idea. She doesn't want to see you, but loves the attention
2. Shes segueing with a question about your cat to deflect and let you down easy
3. Have you met anyone else??? **** test in text form. what girl of high value does that? none
4. Complaining about first dates? Another **** test for jealousy or for you to be an emotional tampon. You must not have come across as super high value otherwise she would have set you apart from the other dates shes complaining about.
5. Shes trying to let you down easy to keep you orbiting.
6. Was she screaming when you were boinking her? if not, that could be the problem

Obviously you didn't bang her good enough or the ***** has a couple other irons in the fire.

EJECT

All good points....she had multiple orgasms. I was telling her that she was my *****. She agreed and said I could have it anytime I wanted.

I think I wasn't ass hole enough for her. From our chatting I could tell she was used to being treated very poorly. For example she asked if she had to leave after sex. I told her she could stay as long as she wanted. I should have kicked her a ss out. Maybe it was the sex or maybe the fact that I need to up my ass hole game. I'll work on both.

It's a learning process. I will improve.

 

[marmel75]

All good points....she had multiple orgasms. I was telling her that she was my *****. She agreed and said I could have it anytime I wanted.

I think I wasn't ass hole enough for her. From our chatting I could tell she was used to being treated very poorly. For example she asked if she had to leave after sex. I told her she could stay as long as she wanted. I should have kicked her a ss out. Maybe it was the sex or maybe the fact that I need to up my ass hole game. I'll work on both.

It's a learning process. I will improve.

How did you know she had multiple orgasms? Chicks say that sh!t all the time to make dudes feel better.

If the bedsheets weren't soaked or she wasn't uncontrollably shaking you didn't hit it good enough...just saying.

No chick is gonna say they don't want to see a dude who just made them cvm all over the place...

 

[dustmuffin]

How did you know she had multiple orgasms? Chicks say that sh!t all the time to make dudes feel better.

If the bedsheets weren't soaked or she wasn't uncontrollably shaking you didn't hit it good enough...just saying.

No chick is gonna say they don't want to see a dude who just made them cvm all over the place...

She didn't say it. I could tell by her clenching p ussy. It could have been bad sex. I'll read more of the sex God method and be more dominate in bed. Like I said...I'll work on the sex and my nice guy demeanour.