"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
how to reply to a compliment?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
bluelemond: I like you taste!
OR
bluelemond: You have good taste!
shydude
Master Don Juan
i guess that will work. thanks man.bluelemond said:Her: I like your shirt!
bluelemond: I like you taste!
OR
bluelemond: You have good taste!
dannowillbookem
Master Don Juan
danno: you're gonna need to be more creative to get in my pants
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Microphone Fiend
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dannowillbookem
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i'll do that next time a girl says that just to see what happens
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Best friends? NAY
Senior Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You: "Don't be so rude; my eyes are up here!"
(a good comeback since women tend to say that to men with wandering eyes)
Her: "I like your shirt."
You: Hahah, what do you REALLY want? I know you're kissing my butt for a reason...
Regardless of what you say, whether it's a ****y/funny reply or a straightforward "you think so?" or "thanks!", always smile...ESPECIALLY if you're doing the ****y/funny
biker_gixxer
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"Yeah, it is pretty cool huh". Then give her a wink so she knows you are being playful.xbills22 said:sometimes in school a girl will say "i like ur shirt" and stuff like that. how should i reply to that? saying just thanks seems kinda lame.
THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
(credit: Craig from DYD)