"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to reject fat girls (Serious responses only PLEASE!)

Demystify

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f283000 said:
fat girls approaching you = you look too much like a nice guy, reek of "niceguy" etc etc.

You have to reek of "niceguy" in order for a fat girl to "woman up" and talk to you. This is because they have less fear of being put down. You think they are going to be approaching the jerk that will tell them to f___ off? they only approach guys they either see as feminine/weak/nice that they think are not as high up from their level.

For the sake of your reputation never be seen talking to a fattie...unless she is hanging around with 2 of her hot friends then I wouldn't mind saying hi to her in order to get an introduction to her pals ;)
Most helpful post in the thread, but how do I be the jerk and tell the fat girl to f off or do I actually say "f___ off"';
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Demystify said:
Most helpful post in the thread, but how do I be the jerk and tell the fat girl to f off or do I actually say "f___ off"';
Wow, if a girl you wanted to have sex with said that to you, you would come back here and scream at us and say all girls should go to hell and they are worthless bvtches

You should politely decline the invitation if you are not interested in a girl, fat or non fat.
 

Demystify

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DonJuan11 said:
Wow, if a girl you wanted to have sex with said that to you
Girls already say that kind of stuff to me and on top of that fat girls like me and won't stop borrowing me, which is a double negative.
 

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Well I think biblebelts advice is dead on. But it won't work if you are with all the girls short term ie. meet the group in a bar and need an SNL. Flirting with the fat girl will get you rep points with the girls, but only if you know you'll see them again.

You're telling us alot about what you DON'T want...but what DO you want. That is key. You can easily ignore the fat girls advances if you have another girl you are focusing on gaming. That is the key to ignoring people, having your mind occupied by something else. You don't have to be a **** because you're busy going after other better looking girls.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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