She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I am not sleeping with her anymore. I left her numerous times. I have treated her terribly. Now its at the point where she refuses to talk to me. Social media has shown me she isnt over it all. Yet she still wont talk. She knows I will equal hurt and she shouldnt love me. So right now logic is winning the battle.TheException said:How do you crack the code to get her emotion to make the logic of her getting hurt again to go away?
By keeping on doing what you have been doing. Shes sleeping with you, in "love with you" so why change? A woman's logic will NEVER outduel her emotions. Add a sprinkle of rapport building every once in awhile and its game over.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.