"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How to really approach?

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Rhino22

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Ok, seriously how should you really approach a strange girl that you don't know? Let's say I'm at walmart or something and I come around the corner and see her standing there looking at shower curtains. Should I wait to make eye contact (only thing that really makes me nervous) or can I just walk up to her out of the blue and say hello?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Word you gotta just do it know what i'm sayin. don't even think about it and say wateva in the first 3 seconds so u don't talk yaself out of it. It's better to say anything then to say nothing. But real talk when you think about it, how can you mold this woman and be a real man to her if you can't even utter a statement to her? Real talk you giving the P too much power my dude. You gotta work on that before you work on openers bro, real talk. Now maybe it'll help you out if u acted like you knew her if you consider her a strange girl you don't know. How would u act towards her if you knew her
 
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"Can you help me pick out some shower curtains? I need some new ones.

Yeah, they keep getting torn... too much sex in the shower. *serious face*

I need to start picking up women with shorter nails.

Here, let me see your hands?"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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