"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok, seriously how should you really approach a strange girl that you don't know? Let's say I'm at walmart or something and I come around the corner and see her standing there looking at shower curtains. Should I wait to make eye contact (only thing that really makes me nervous) or can I just walk up to her out of the blue and say hello?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Word you gotta just do it know what i'm sayin. don't even think about it and say wateva in the first 3 seconds so u don't talk yaself out of it. It's better to say anything then to say nothing. But real talk when you think about it, how can you mold this woman and be a real man to her if you can't even utter a statement to her? Real talk you giving the P too much power my dude. You gotta work on that before you work on openers bro, real talk. Now maybe it'll help you out if u acted like you knew her if you consider her a strange girl you don't know. How would u act towards her if you knew her
 
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"Can you help me pick out some shower curtains? I need some new ones.

Yeah, they keep getting torn... too much sex in the shower. *serious face*

I need to start picking up women with shorter nails.

Here, let me see your hands?"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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