"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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How to react when the one you like tells you..

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Hi fellow djs,

How does one react one the person your interested in tells you that there are two guys wooing her. Also, I'm pretty sure she knows I like her. Thanks guys.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Gangster Of Love

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"How do you know they even like you?"

Make her qualify herself to you, but don't do it in a mean way. If she tells you a little about each, focus on the things she doesn't like and playfully tell her stuff like, "He sounds like you're type", "You should give him a chance", etc.

More than anything, she is looking to see how you react. She's trying to qualify you, and see how much you're into her. $hit test, if there ever was one. If you do it right, she will be the one on the defense, jumping your hoops, and qualifying herself to you. She will be the one selling herself on the reasons why she is not interested in those guys, and your value will increase.
 
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How does one react one the person your interested in tells you that there are two guys wooing her.

That's a major sh!t test. Here are two options:

Tell her that the other guy and her make a cute couple, and then go talk to a different girl.

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Act surprised that there is only one other guy after her. Laugh, and say, "Really? I've got like half a dozen girls after me."
 
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speed dawg

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Yep, nothing but a b!tch test. They are going to do this even if you're married for 10 years. DO NOT GET MAD OR IRRITATED. SHE WILL WIN IF YOU DO. Do as these other posters have said. All she's doing is trying to get you to act jealous.
 
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I recently had one I'm interested in tell me all about this guy in a bar recently invited her to his hotel room. I just laughed and said "Ha Ha looks like Amber (her name) got laid!!" I assume this was a sh!t test since we arre both intersted in eachother. Thought I handled that one quite well!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Use a mixed response, not jealous but not too happy about it either. Prize yourself and make her see it's in her best interest to ditch the extras.

Something like:

"Yeh? I'm not sure I like that...the last thing I want is some hopeless admirer calling you when we're having fun...you may have one of those annoying ringtones...if you wanna experience me properly, I'm gonna expect your full attention..."
 
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"well sir, if you want to buy this car its going to have to be soon, i've got two other eager buyers. so what's it going to be?"

"You've got two other eager buyers? hmmm, if they really want the car I'll pass. there were a couple of other cars I was looking at earlier today that I really liked as well"

"well..umm....hold on a second now. You know I like you. Tell you what I'll do. I'll knock 1,000 bucks off just for you. what do you say? deal?"

"hmmm, make it 2,000 and its a deal."


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"hey djnles. there are these two guys who really like me."

"i'm not surprised, who wouldn't like you? I like you also."

"really? i never knew."

"sure. you're great. i mean, there are a few other women who are pretty neat also that i like, but you're definitely cool."

"aww thanks djnles."

"no problem."

at this point she'll take over and try to sell you the car. it will be up to you whether you buy or not.

UNLESS she's a better negotiator than you, in which case she'll start telling you how she's going to go out with these guys. to which you say...

"let me know how it goes."

[and walk off the lot at this point - be totally cool about it, like you're off to look at other cars.]

let her try to sell the car to someone else, if she can't then you'll get it at a huge discount.
 
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joekerr31 said:
"well sir, if you want to buy this car its going to have to be soon, i've got two other eager buyers. so what's it going to be?"

"You've got two other eager buyers? hmmm, if they really want the car I'll pass. there were a couple of other cars I was looking at earlier today that I really liked as well"

"well..umm....hold on a second now. You know I like you. Tell you what I'll do. I'll knock 1,000 bucks off just for you. what do you say? deal?"

"hmmm, make it 2,000 and its a deal."


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"hey djnles. there are these two guys who really like me."

"i'm not surprised, who wouldn't like you? I like you also."

"really? i never knew."

"sure. you're great. i mean, there are a few other women who are pretty neat also that i like, but you're definitely cool."

"aww thanks djnles."

"no problem."

at this point she'll take over and try to sell you the car. it will be up to you whether you buy or not.

UNLESS she's a better negotiator than you, in which case she'll start telling you how she's going to go out with these guys. to which you say...

"let me know how it goes."

[and walk off the lot at this point - be totally cool about it, like you're off to look at other cars.]

let her try to sell the car to someone else, if she can't then you'll get it at a huge discount.
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