I will give you an example of a scenario. This is just an example for you to see what types of situation I am talking about. I come across such situations a lot. I am sure other guys do too. the structure of the situation is like this: the girl apologizes for a situation, then puts herself down.
you see inside a girl's car. she says "sorry it's a mess in here. I am so disorganized"
I have 2 responses and from experience, both lead to a dead end.
If I try to make her feel good by saying "it's ok, it's really not that bad. I am disorganized too" it goes to a dead end. I can't flirt after this. I don't know why, maybe because I start sounding like her gay friend. or maybe because I am not being truthful and people that are not truthful are not sexy.
If I try to put her down "you're right, you're so disorganized, jesus clean up" it makes me sound like a jerk which is even worse than the first response.
so how do I react to such situations? ignore and change subject?
you see inside a girl's car. she says "sorry it's a mess in here. I am so disorganized"
I have 2 responses and from experience, both lead to a dead end.
If I try to make her feel good by saying "it's ok, it's really not that bad. I am disorganized too" it goes to a dead end. I can't flirt after this. I don't know why, maybe because I start sounding like her gay friend. or maybe because I am not being truthful and people that are not truthful are not sexy.
If I try to put her down "you're right, you're so disorganized, jesus clean up" it makes me sound like a jerk which is even worse than the first response.
so how do I react to such situations? ignore and change subject?
