How to reach that state of mind?

[BannedGod]

Yesterday I was at a party, and I was quite tipsy, and it was great! I mean, usually when I'm sober, I do the DJ stuff (eye contact, kino, being playful - for me this means neg hits and C + F) but I always have a little voice in my head that tells me not to overdo it and be careful to not make the girls pissed off at me. However, yesterday I was tipsy and I realized today that the little voice was non existent (I was flirting heavily with 2 girls, one my ex, and I could see some interest in both of them). So I was wondering, how can I kill that little voice other then by booze?

 

[L B]

One word: Experience.

I used to be the same way, I would overanalyze things and end up doing nothing. It's just part of the process. When you're new to it, you lack the confidence and would find ways to not try out certain things. Keep at it, every little victory will give you more confidence. Don't let the failures be your setback though.

It's great that you don't want alcohol to be part of your growth. If you cannot live life sober, you cannot live life at all.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

One word: Experience.
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I'd say confidence.

 

[Michael Chief]

dude! when i first started sarging i was frustrated from my fear of approach. i realized that i have NO problem talking to chicas when ive had something to drink.
when i went sarging sober the next time, i focused on relaxing and trying to get into a drunk mindset. it worked =P