"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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For the hell of it I just messaged some chick on MySpace and used some technique that diablo gave but see my MySpace profile is BLANK I just figured ah what the hell and I sent a message and shockingly she responded and answered and started asking ME questions, so then I responded to her with my interests and we have some stuff in common and then she replied yet again asking me more questions.

I don't get it though, I'm sure she must be getting a ton of messages from the "rest of the AFCs" but see my profile is blank. How does she know I'm not some serial killer lol. Should I update my profile with my picture and a small biography? I have no friends on my MySpace profile and I pretty much just want to meet this girl and not have some ****ty "friends zone/online relationship"

Any tips out there what I should do? What kind of C&F should I pull? MySpace profile is blank with 0 friends and she's pursuing the intrest conversation which i'm confused as to why she even bothers with someone who doesn't even have a picture of himself on his site.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Obviously you havent taken diablos or anybody's advice, otherwise you wouldnt be making this thread asking this questions.
 

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what are you talking about? the only thing he said was to message her not calling her "hot" "beautiful" and to actually read the profile (which I did) and my message to her was something like "Subj: Finding Nemo Msg: I love Finding Nemo too. So you're into cars as well?" she responded and asked me questions and other signs showing she is interested and it went from there. I just don't understand. I want to pursue her but stumped as my profile is blank so she has no idea who she is talking to and how can I pursue her?
 

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Originally posted by seanmichaels
what are you talking about? the only thing he said was to message her not calling her "hot" "beautiful" and to actually read the profile (which I did) and my message to her was something like "Subj: Finding Nemo Msg: I love Finding Nemo too. So you're into cars as well?" she responded and asked me questions and other signs showing she is interested and it went from there. I just don't understand. I want to pursue her but stumped as my profile is blank so she has no idea who she is talking to and how can I pursue her?
Who cares how/what she knows about you? She seems about as desperate as you are, so just take advantage already.
 

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Yeah I know that. But how? Just say Oh yeah wanna meet? It just seems so stalkerish. Also because of the fact my profile is blank. She replied to me asking more questions, I just don't want this to keep going back and forth back and forth. So what should I say to end this back-and-forth crap and just get down to the point already where I want to be with her? I can tell she's interested so that's set already. It's just weird, she has 800+ friends list and she's talking to some nobody with no pic and 0 friends. Is my DJ skills really that good when I messaged her? lol. But seriously, what's the best thing out of this? Maybe she replies to every single guy that messages her? who knows. Ah well.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Are you such a loser that you dont know when you have won?

Dude, just chat with her, exchange pics and try to set up a meeting. If she blows you off then , SO FUKKING WHAT? If you are that worried about her being a net ho, then chat with someone else. There are zillions of desperate b!tches on the net.

Online pickups are the easiest.
 

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Are you that much of a loser you need to boost your ego by calling others "losers"?

and by the way, in-person pick ups are the easiest because EVERYBODY picks up online so girls get zillions of messages, where as in real life people are scared to talk to them so when you go up to them it'll be different.
 
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