"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How to proceed with this women on insta?

Stephen89

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I've been randomly messaging women on insta and I got lucky I looked through my friends list for women to randomly message.

She is model and it is not a fake profile as one of my acquaintances knew her from college hence he has her profile.

She has replied to all my messages and accepted my follow request.

She has naked pics on her profile.

Should I proceed with do you fancy meeting up and getting to know ourselves better?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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EyeBRollin

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No sir. She has naked pics. Chicks on Instagram are attention *****s.

Social media outside of business purposes is a bad idea. You’re no mystery to her...
 

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Write: I want to meet you, when are you free?

Fish for terms if you will, she could be a high class prostitute or an escort. She should tell you terms if you ask this, otherwise you two will just meet. Though, I would make it just out of the blue, I'd chit chat and perhaps even get her number, that would be ideal if she gives you her phone number so you could call her.
 

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You can ask whatever you want, but the kind of woman that puts naked pictures on Instagram is probably either a prostitute or an attention whoar.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Stephen89

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I should've just stated I wanted to be friends I dont think there is a way back.

Well I asked if she wanted to meet up for a drink and this is what she replied:

'Well I’m not interested in dating just yet, wanna try and get xmas out the way then see if I meet someone xD'
 
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bcude

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'Well I’m not interested in dating you, wanna try and get xmas out the way to see if i meet chad. If he's not around i might let you take me out once or twice for free dinner though'

Naked pics on IG is the definition of thrash anyway
 

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'Well I’m not interested in dating just yet, wanna try and get xmas out the way then see if I meet someone xD'
"Whoah there. You may wanna slow down. Who said anything about dating?"
 

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I've been randomly messaging women on insta and I got lucky I looked through my friends list for women to randomly message.

She is model and it is not a fake profile as one of my acquaintances knew her from college hence he has her profile.

She has replied to all my messages and accepted my follow request.

She has naked pics on her profile.

Should I proceed with do you fancy meeting up and getting to know ourselves better?
I have a friend who is an Instagram model, a Patreon account, and recently an onlyfans account. The only thing they care about is getting modeling gigs and money suckers send to them... in fact they are sort of afraid of the people that follow them. No chance in hell would she ever agree to meet up with any of them.

Women like this belong to the world.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mrgoodstuff

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Well thanks for being honest, out of 100's of ladies I've never had one come straight out and explain that they value wasting my time. We should have a drink or a dinner on that alone.
 

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Well thanks for being honest, out of 100's of ladies I've never had one come straight out and explain that they value wasting my time. We should have a drink or a dinner on that alone.
It doesn't matter what you say to someone like this. They're not interested in actually meeting anyone.
 
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