"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How to proceed with this women on insta?

Stephen89

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I've been randomly messaging women on insta and I got lucky I looked through my friends list for women to randomly message.

She is model and it is not a fake profile as one of my acquaintances knew her from college hence he has her profile.

She has replied to all my messages and accepted my follow request.

She has naked pics on her profile.

Should I proceed with do you fancy meeting up and getting to know ourselves better?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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EyeBRollin

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No sir. She has naked pics. Chicks on Instagram are attention *****s.

Social media outside of business purposes is a bad idea. You’re no mystery to her...
 

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Write: I want to meet you, when are you free?

Fish for terms if you will, she could be a high class prostitute or an escort. She should tell you terms if you ask this, otherwise you two will just meet. Though, I would make it just out of the blue, I'd chit chat and perhaps even get her number, that would be ideal if she gives you her phone number so you could call her.
 

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You can ask whatever you want, but the kind of woman that puts naked pictures on Instagram is probably either a prostitute or an attention whoar.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Stephen89

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I should've just stated I wanted to be friends I dont think there is a way back.

Well I asked if she wanted to meet up for a drink and this is what she replied:

'Well I’m not interested in dating just yet, wanna try and get xmas out the way then see if I meet someone xD'
 
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bcude

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'Well I’m not interested in dating you, wanna try and get xmas out the way to see if i meet chad. If he's not around i might let you take me out once or twice for free dinner though'

Naked pics on IG is the definition of thrash anyway
 

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'Well I’m not interested in dating just yet, wanna try and get xmas out the way then see if I meet someone xD'
"Whoah there. You may wanna slow down. Who said anything about dating?"
 

RangerMIke

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I've been randomly messaging women on insta and I got lucky I looked through my friends list for women to randomly message.

She is model and it is not a fake profile as one of my acquaintances knew her from college hence he has her profile.

She has replied to all my messages and accepted my follow request.

She has naked pics on her profile.

Should I proceed with do you fancy meeting up and getting to know ourselves better?
I have a friend who is an Instagram model, a Patreon account, and recently an onlyfans account. The only thing they care about is getting modeling gigs and money suckers send to them... in fact they are sort of afraid of the people that follow them. No chance in hell would she ever agree to meet up with any of them.

Women like this belong to the world.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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mrgoodstuff

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Well thanks for being honest, out of 100's of ladies I've never had one come straight out and explain that they value wasting my time. We should have a drink or a dinner on that alone.
 

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Well thanks for being honest, out of 100's of ladies I've never had one come straight out and explain that they value wasting my time. We should have a drink or a dinner on that alone.
It doesn't matter what you say to someone like this. They're not interested in actually meeting anyone.
 
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