I will also add, she knew the bartender, and she recently disclosed that she got engaged to both of us. I vaguely remember her from going to the bar prior, but she comped our drinks. The lady I was with suggested we leave a tip for her, so I did. She was originally going to leave it, but I did instead. Anyways, we were talking about it for a bit and we both were a bit shocked that the dude asked her to marry her w/o a ring. I said in my head, it's never going to happen, as they were dating for 9 years. Anyways, by mistake, I let it slip that in my 20's I was technically married but got an annulment. She didn't seem to like that too much. Before I said I it was annulled and therefore I was never married, she did state why didn't I tell her. I didn't say anything because and annulment nulls the marriage like it never happened. It was only a few months and it was due to fraud on the lady's part. I never thought it would be an issue, I guess to some Catholics it is? I'm Catholic, doesn't bother me a bit.
I guess I am replaying the date in my head at lunch right now as it's been years since I got the cheek, so I am trying to figure everything out. I'll still text her tomorrow or Wednesday, but I'm prepared for a ghost or a no go. Her birthday is this weekend too, where she's going to Miami with her friends. What's with everyone in Connecticut going to Miami these days?