Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to proceed after ONS?

European-DJ

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I’m curious how you guys act the days after an ONS?

In my way to recover from the loss of a girl, I went for a few drinks with a girl I had recently reinitiated contact with after 3-4 years (back then we didn’t have sex).

After two fun hours I saw my opening and brought her home. Sex was good and we cuddled up afterwards and slept until I had to leave (early in the morning). We kissed goodbye and went each our ways.

I’ve been quite busy today, so I haven’t really thought about contacting her at all. Usually, I would send a girl a text the next day thanking her for a good time. However, before doing such a thing, I would like to know how you guys approach it? Do you reach out, wait for them to reach out or what’s your approach?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Billtx49

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If you lay her, another date is usually an automatic. Wait three days and hit her up again for next weekend.
 
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TheGambino

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Usually They Will hit You up if They like You. Be Blunt, be Nice and respectful but indifferent
 
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