"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to proceed after ONS?

European-DJ

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I’m curious how you guys act the days after an ONS?

In my way to recover from the loss of a girl, I went for a few drinks with a girl I had recently reinitiated contact with after 3-4 years (back then we didn’t have sex).

After two fun hours I saw my opening and brought her home. Sex was good and we cuddled up afterwards and slept until I had to leave (early in the morning). We kissed goodbye and went each our ways.

I’ve been quite busy today, so I haven’t really thought about contacting her at all. Usually, I would send a girl a text the next day thanking her for a good time. However, before doing such a thing, I would like to know how you guys approach it? Do you reach out, wait for them to reach out or what’s your approach?

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Billtx49

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If you lay her, another date is usually an automatic. Wait three days and hit her up again for next weekend.
 
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TheGambino

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Usually They Will hit You up if They like You. Be Blunt, be Nice and respectful but indifferent
 
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